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Even the most stable and loving of couples need ways to reconnect and spice things up from time to time. And if you’ve been looking for ways to deepen intimacy with your partner and try something new, you should book a stay at a kinky hotel. Not quite sold? Then there are two things you should know.
First, The Journal of Sexual Medicine reports that people who participate in kink culture like BDSM and bondage report a higher sense of well-being than those who don’t. And second, traveling together helps reignite romance and maintain intimacy in relationships, says a report by US Travel. Luckily for couples interested in both, there are destinations around the world that cater to the sexually curious and adventurous couple. These are the perfect spots to visit for that special (and naughty) one-on-one time you’ve been craving with your partner. Here are some of the kinkiest hotels and destinations around the world.
Hedonism
Jamaica
Website: Hedonism.com
If you’re ready to explore your wildest fantasies with your partner – or with your partner, plus a sexy single third – Hedonism has everything to get you started. This luxury resort is certainly equipped with everything you want from tropical getaway like pools, private beaches and tasty cocktails as far as the eye can see. But at night time, things get a little wild. Expect nightly themed costume parties like “Leather Fetish & Lingerie” or “Tropical stimulation” where a combination of music, visual stimuli and sensual performances will excite your naughty side.
There is also a clothing-optional beach, along with a nude pool. Plus, if you hit it off with someone and want to explore your connection, you can head over to the “Romping Shop Playroom” for some group play. Or enjoy the “Happening Hut” that’s open 24/7 for intimate adventure. This resort welcomes couples, single women, and single men but only “when invited.”
Desire Resort & Spa
Riviera Maya, Mexico
Website: Desireresorts.com
Swingers looking for a luxurious resort filled with other curious couples can book a stay at the Desire Resort & Spa. This couples-only retreat is a stunning beach-front property boasting four gourmet restaurants, a rooftop Jacuzzi and lounge, nightly entertainment, a spa and more.
But let’s get to the good stuff. If you and your partner meet a couple that you’re feeling, you can book an “erotic massage for four” at the spa, complete with a little hot tub time and champagne and then…wherever you want to take things next. You’ll find clothing-optional areas around the resort, nightly adult pool parties, and sexy theme nights in the club. If you’re looking for a way to stay fit but also tease your partner, have them watch while you take a pole dancing class.
Karosta Prison
Latvia
Website: Kaorstascietums.lv
Now this is a kinky travel experience that is for the advanced explorer. If you want to take your prison guard/inmate roleplay fantasy to the next level, book the “Extreme Night” at Karosta Prison. You’ll sleep on a little more than a hard bunk, eat prison meals, and sign a waiver allowing the guards to “punish” you how they see fit. The Extreme Night caters to BDSM enthusiasts and is a fully-immersive experience. Who needs cozy four-poster beds when you can get on your hands and knees on cold, steel floors and get whipped by a guard?
Bliss Cruises
Various Destinations
Website: Blisscuires.com
If you’re more into sexy cruises than kinky hotels, check out Bliss Cruises. Bliss Cruises are adults-only, couples-only ships that, according to their website, cater to “Niche clients who value an environment which allows freedom of choice” (so, swingers). On any given trip, expect nightly themed and sexy parties, adult-only entertainment, and clothing-optional swimming pools. You’ll also enjoy traditional cruise ship amenities including several international dining options, live shows, fitness classes and more. Bliss Cruises regularly goes to destinations in the Bahamas and Mexico.
Love Hotel
Paris, France
Website: Lovehotelparis.fr
The unique Love Hotel in Paris might be one of the kinkiest hotels on this list. It has 20 creative rooms, full of sexy surprises. Each one features its own design, aimed at appeasing your dirtiest desires and wildest fantasies. The Infernal Suite, for example, has available devil’s horns and a costume for rent, as well as a peek-through window that lets you see what your neighbors are up to. Throughout the other themed rooms you’ll find raunchy toys from cages to whips and handcuffs, as well as floor-to-ceiling mirrors, stripper poles, bondage crosses and more. Oh, and rooms can be rented by the hour.
Drake Hotel
Toronto, Canada
Website: TheDrake.ca
The Drake Hotel in Toronto can be your regular, luxury boutique hotel if you want it to be. Or, you can request their “Pleasure Menu” and choose from a selection of sex toys for his and her, including a sexy paddle and whip, several types of vibrators, a blindfold and bondage tape. This makes the Drake Hotel the perfect place for a couple who wants to experiment, but also wants to be discreet.
When you’re ready to come out from your adult play den, you can catch a show at the on-site music venue, Drake Underground, which attracts some of the hottest acts, or enjoy a meal at the gourmet restaurant.
