Trauma Bonding: What It Is And Signs You’re Doing It

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You love each other more for your wounds
After you express terrifying thoughts to your partner, he isn’t frightened: that is when he is most attracted to you. You feel closer, the more scary, unhealthy, unstable thoughts you express to one another. You take comfort in knowing that the other person is as unstable as you are, and almost take that as confirmation that what you’re thinking and feeling is “normal.”