In a study created by the online dating site, eHarmony, it was revealed that men and women agree on many of the “must haves” in a relationship. They want a sense of humor, someone who is affectionate and kind, chemistry, good communication and loyalty. Not surprisingly, both sexes want someone who is emotionally healthy, and who is honest and has strong character. On the flip side, men and women were mostly in agreement about what they can’t stand in a relationship, although there were differences in how they ranked various behaviors. Both men and women posted similar concerns about lying, cheating, rude behavior and drug use. Check out these 9 deal breakers from the woman’s perspective and take a close look at your current relationship- are you living with a potential dead end?