Looking For People To Perform Their Grief And 9 Other Things Not To Do When Someone Is Mourning
Place blame
When faced with a tragedy, it can be easy to point fingers and place blame regarding what people did and did not do when the deceased was alive. However, this is counterproductive and is especially hurtful during an already trying time. Nothing you say will change what happened or bring the person back, but your words can definitely break the people who are still alive to hear you.