How Your Partner Should Care For You When You’re Sick
Or for the two of you
He should understand that he cannot RSVP to big, active events on both of your parts, when you aren’t well. A good partner who understands how to be a caretaker will say to someone, when invited somewhere, “You know, my partner isn’t doing well. I can’t promise she’ll feel up to it that day. Can we tell you as it gets closer?”