The Silent Judgement Around In Vitro Fertilization
You don’t know what it means to them
Ultimately, it’s never up to us to determine what is a “gross misuse of funds” for somebody else. Your friends could think that all the money you put into renovating your bathroom was a gross misuse of funds—did you really need that Jacuzzi tub and those marble floors? We can’t put a price on what something means to somebody else. If having a baby would be the greatest joy in this person’s life, then it’s not a gross misuse of funds.