When you start dating someone, only possibility lies in front of you. It’s an auspicious time, or, scary time (depending on your personalty), as you get to know the personality, quirks, and flaws of the beautiful human in front of you. But dating should be seen for what it is–dating. It’s not immediate commitment and it’s definitely not a marriage proposal. Chemistry is cute, but have you ever had personality, life goals, and lifestyles aligned? Yea, that part. Your early bliss is based on chemistry and emotions and unfortunately, that’s not all you need to determine if this person is a potential good life partner for you.
So the first thing women need to stop doing when newly dating someone is ignoring red flags. Whether it’s that he is a terrible communicator, a big talker with no follow through, already showing jealous/possessive tendencies, has job instability with no real goals, etc, pay attention to that! Unless you’re dating just for fun, please remember that what you ignore now will be heartache later.