We all know someone who is just with a grumpy dude. He’s probably loveable in his ways—he’s likely hilariously sarcastic and, at least when he is kind, you know it’s very genuine because he’s not quick to give out a compliment. Some women are just attracted to the recluses of the world instead of the gregarious guys that kick down the door at every party and are then the life of it. I have a couple of girlfriends who are dating and married to loveable grumps, and I have a little insight into their struggles. Their partners like me (luckily, because when they don’t like someone, they make it clear) so I get a close look at what goes on behind closed doors with these couples. Here are the funny and frustrating realities of loving a grumpy man who doesn’t like anyone but you.
You have to ask him to watch his RBF
You’re always telling him to be conscious of his resting b*tch face. He has a hard time hiding the fact that he thinks a lot of people are dumb or annoying. It just shows all over his expression. You have a signal to let him know he’s doing it again.