And not everyone knows me, really
Often, those who urge me to have kids don’t really know me. The only people who should be giving any input on whether or not I would make a good mom are my best, best friend and my partner. Not my family friend I see twice a year. Not my coworker who I really only hang with at work happy hours. They only see a sliver of my personality and yet, many of them urge me to have kids.