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I have a few friends who have found themselves involved with men who are into bondage, and there’s always a common theme: those men are very powerful men. Outside of the bedroom, they are always on top, they are always the ones calling the shots, and they are always given the utmost respect everywhere they go. In their sex life, they like to be on the bottom (literally and figuratively), they like to be given orders, and they actually like to be disrespected. I guess it feeds into that assumption that those who are regal in the streets are freaks in the sheets. For some, sex is a place to release our traits that we feel aren’t acceptable in the other arenas of our lives. If you’ve recently started dating a super powerful man, just don’t be shocked if he has a sex dungeon and asks you to be in charge…Here are some reasons powerful men are attracted to bondage.
They’re tired of decision-making
Powerful people have to make decisions all day long. They never get to turn their decision-making skills off. They have to make decisions that affect others—in sometimes massive ways—all day long. They like handing over the decision-making to someone else in sex.
