Do You Baby Your Partner Too Much?
Don’t set up this precedent
Now you’re setting up a precedent by which he never has to do a little extra work—even a little—so that you can enjoy something special. Meanwhile, you bend over backwards (you know you do) so he can enjoy things that make him happy. That should be a two-way street in which each of you make compromises, if it can make the other really happy. In other words, even if he hates seafood, he can take you to the seafood place and he can just order the steak.