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It happens to all of us at least once: you meet a guy with whom you have incredible chemistry and an instant connection. You could talk to him all night. You already know you’ll just want more and more of him if you start spending time together. There’s just one problem: he just got out of a relationship. He may claim that that is not a problem because, well, men tend to think with an organ that’s…let’s just say not their brains. I also feel that women are more aware of the importance of healing after a breakup and taking time to themselves. Women tend to know that dating while heartbroken is never a good idea. Men, however, aren’t as comfortable with admitting that they are hurt so they certainly won’t admit that they are too damaged to date. That’s why so many women wind up with men who are clearly just using them to get over heartache. It’s hard to believe it’s true when he insists that it isn’t, but there are signs.
He wants to see you a lot
He is very insistent on moving quickly. If you can’t see him for a few days, he gets anxious. He tries to insert himself in your plans. He asks if you can change your plans to see him. He is probably trying desperately to distract himself and run from his heartache, and spending time alone doesn’t help with that.
