There are many issues that can affect relationships, but one of the worst is when you feel like you’re being used, especially when it comes to your money. Having suspicions that your man is only with you because of what you can do for him financially is a position many women find themselves in, but don’t have to.
To help you detect the signs of being swindled by a user, we’ve put together a list of sure-fire ways to tell if your man is only focused on your bank account and how it can benefit him. If you recognize any of these signs, don’t hesitate to get out before your wallet runs dry.
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You Pay For Everything…All The Time
This is as obvious as it gets. If you are always the only person to spend money on any and everything while your man pays for absolutely nothing, then you are most certainly being used.
Sure, everyone goes through financial shifts where they may have less money than they’re used to and thus their significant other may have to foot the bill, but this should not be the case all the time. If you ever needed concrete proof that you’re likely a sugar mama, this is it.