So, fellas, I don’t know if you realize this but, if your partner ever tells you that she is pregnant, she went through an emotional roller coaster before arriving at that moment. She probably already cried a lot, had several panic attacks, and took the whole damn box of pregnancy tests just to make sure. She’s been through the ringer before arriving at that moment in which she sits you down and tells you she’s pregnant. Now, I understand that the information is shocking. And I understand that you have a disadvantage because, when you find out she’s pregnant, your girlfriend or wife is staring right at you, judging your reaction, but when she found out, she was likely alone in a bathroom or doctor’s office. That being said, please, please don’t say these things if your partner tells you she’s pregnant.
Did you forget to take your pill?
Oh sure, go right ahead to blaming her mistake for this. Look, there is no possible way of proving that she didn’t take a pill at the right time, or even that, if she did, that that’s the reason this happened. So coming in hot with the blame is never a good idea.