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Today, if you wait just three dates to have sex with a guy, your friends consider you patient and the guy himself might even consider you hard-to-get. In a world where many romantic comedies feature one-night-stands that turn into marriages, and people mention Tinder in their wedding vows, it can be easy to be tricked into believing that having sex right away with someone is not only no big deal, but a normal part of finding love. That simply isn’t true. No matter how much we have changed as a society, the fact remains that sex is really intimate. As a woman, you literally let someone inside of your body. Sex also results in a chain reaction of hormones surging in our bodies that tell us we’re connected to this person. You should do what you want with your body, but if you’re wondering what it may be like to hold off on sex, here’s what happens when you wait three months to have sex with a guy.
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You filter out the creeps
You filter out the guys who just wanted to have sex with you and disappear right away. Even the guys willing to pretend they want a relationship for a couple of dates to sleep with you aren’t willing to pretend they want one for three months. Buh-bye.
