“As A Woman You Should Be Able To Say No” Female Comic Brutally Beaten After Rejecting Men’s Advances

October 23, 2015  |  

Source: Go Fund Me

It’s a shame that being a woman, living and moving in the world, can be a dangerous endeavor. Paris Sashay, a 23-year-old comedienne, was out with her friends late last Saturday night when she was brutally attacked by a group of men.

The men called out to Sashay and her friends and when she rejected their advances, the interaction turned violent. Sashay was walking to her parked car when the men pushed her to the ground. She blacked out but later woke up in the hospital with a broken nose, chipped teeth, a swollen lip and bruises.

She told a Washington NBC affiliate, “Guys make it where you don’t have a right to say no anymore. But as a woman, you should be able to say no,” Sashay said. “Just say no. You’re just not interested.”

When Sashay woke up in the hospital she was worried less about her appearance but more about whether or not she’d be able to perform at the DC Improv comedy club. She had decided that the men who hurt her weren’t going to silence her.

“No matter how much it takes, I’ll just go out, perform and do whatever it takes to make the people laugh. I won’t let the people down.”

As you might assume, with medical and dental procedures needed, Sashay’s healing will not be cheap. As a result a Go Fund Me page was set up to assist with the costs of her recovery. The original goal was $2,000. In three days time, supporters donated $4,038.

True to her word, Sashay did indeed take the stage yesterday, less than a week after her assault.

She posted this message of gratitude to those who supported her.

Source: Facebook

As outrageous as it seems, Sashay’s story is not unique. There have been far too many stories of women being attacked and even killed by men who took a woman’s “no” as an excuse for violence.

Around this same time last year, Mary Spears, a mother of three in Detroit, was repeatedly harassed and eventually killed her after she told a man she couldn’t give him her name and number because she was engaged. Several of Spears’ relatives were also injured by gunfire.

A woman in Tampa was beaten and bloodied after she refused a man’s sexual advances.

A woman in Chicago was followed and brutally attacked by a man on the L train after she rejected his pickup lines.

One man bashed at least four Asian women in the head with a bag containing a heavy object. He later killed himself; but before he did so, he wrote a note entitled, “Why I decided to leave earth.”, explaining why he attacked these women.

“In less than 350 days, I talked to nearly 1500 Asian women and none of them took time out of their day to say hello. I became furious. I never agreed with violence, but I knew the only way I could overcome that sense of rejection-would start by assaulting the Women that carelessly rejected me.”

And these are just the examples I was able to dig up in a five minute Google search. It’s a problem.

Again, #MasculinitySoFragile a woman not wanting to speak to or date you warrants heinous crimes in retaliation.

There are crazy people in the world. And our mothers and fathers have prepared us for them. Travel in groups, carry pepper spray, park in a well lit area etc.

But many of the women in the incidents I’ve just listed were following at least one of these rules and they were still attacked.

Women know the rules.

It’s time parents, friends, older dudes on the corner start teaching boys, young men and grown men that a bruised ego doesn’t mean he has the right to insult, attack or kill a woman.

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  • Tashee

    DISGUSTING!!!! Praying for her speedy recovery!!!!

    I hope they find and prosecute these evil men.

  • now you telling the truth, now it’s coming out you trying to make like white people in suburb is all sweet and goodie two shoes and they are far from it I didn’t let my children stay over the night at non of them house LOL……

    • Annamuffin

      Hahaha, my mom and dad let me spend a night… They were all friendly, and they all had pets all I had was a turtle…

      • I wouldn’t trust none of them. I wouldn’t dare let my daughter spend the night over these people house, the very one you think won’t will seek into the room and molest your child and you will never know until later, all you will know is your child start acting up, drinking and drugging because you let her stay over a pev house.

        • Annamuffin

          Oh boy well, their not that bad. Your heart most of change a little bit since your family includes white members now…

          • NOPE! well just a little, they like me because of who I am and what I stand for and my sons are like me and that’s why their wives were attracted to them and if they change they are going to have problems because they won’t be what attracted their wives to them in the first place. See if these males grow a back bone, stand up, straighten up and be men and stand on principles and strong values then these female will set down and be ladies and walk with them.

    • Annamuffin

      Well I recall a few scandals…

  • it goes on in every suburb with very little violence or vandalism, but they don’t call the police and put their business in the streets, calling the police to your house all the time put the spot light on you and cause property value to go down in your neighborhood or subdivision, white folk are very conscience of that. Wait until you get married and start investing in property.

  • Chanda

    This is a damned shame. “Men” simply don’t know how to talk/mac to woman without buggin’ out. Another reason true love songs need to make a comeback. Zero game. Somebody needs to school these clowns since daddy wasn’t around to do it.

  • Keshia

    I’ve called the police on and off for a year now about neighborhood menaces who are harassing me. They couldn’t help, so I got a TPO (Temporary Protective Order). Where were these guys raised? In the jungle? I will protect me and mine till the last breath… Peace Be Still!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • terrify of today’s ninjas

    I am speechless…..

  • Momma Dee Tha Q.U.E.E.N

    This is beyond scary that a simple ‘no’ isn’t good enough. Yet, when ‘You okay sis. ‘ first began men were up in arm against it. But it’s $h!t like this that is the reason stuff like this… We as people need to get it together.

  • LAWAT

    My ❤ to ms.Shashay…know that you are LOVED AND RESPECTED….peace

  • Mr. 215

    What neighborhoods are you ladies hanging out or living in? Get out if you can!!! And no, it shouldn’t matter where you are, it shouldn’t happen at all, but it is the world we live in.

    • Princess

      This can happen no matter where you live, even one’s own home

    • CaribbeanGlow

      Upscale and trendy neighborhoods for me.

      • Mrs.J

        Really?People think it only happens in the hood.Guess not.

        • CaribbeanGlow

          It was black guys in those neighborhoods though… I don’t know where they came from. :/

        • Annamuffin

          I live in Cali and never had it happen to me… Like grown men would look at me in my private school uniform but nothing to cry about. Like men flirt with me but I just see them as being polite, plus I like hearing I’m attractive. Some of you guys just don’t want to be bothered…

          • Mrs.J

            I don’t mind that but some men take it too far.I am very shapely but that’s how God made me.

            • Annamuffin

              Mrs J you act like your shaped like a video model…

              • Mrs.J

                No I used to be when I was younger though and that was a problem for me.

                • Annamuffin

                  People pay good money to look that way

                  • Mrs.J

                    Yes but when you have a big butt and boobs and nice hips it’s a gift and a curse.That’s why I’m fat now and don’t wanna lose weight.Men leave me alone now way more.I like it but I do need to lose weight though.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Is your boyfriend okay with that, don’t you want to stay fit for your health…

                    • Mrs.J

                      He didn’t say anything.He’s a really nice guy.I told him I know I’m fat.I guess I should lose weight but I’m enjoying men not bothering me as much.It’s so nice.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Is he fat? For me my boyfriend is an adventure junky he likes to surf and we going swimming, fishing, hiking, running and so on. So I stay fit do to our relationship…

                • Annamuffin

                  You shouldn’t, like finally my boobs and butt have grown in but people still think I’m 16….

                  • Mrs.J

                    Well you live in L.A in a nice area so you could always buy boobs and butt.Just kidding.

                    • Annamuffin

                      I live a organic natural lifestyle, I would never alter my body for vain reasons. Plus, I’m happy with the way I look…

            • you shapely meaning you are fine you are a brick house LOL…..but seriously women like you and my wife naturally attracts men attention [that’s how she got me] LOL….that’s why my wife has always been careful how she dress certain cloths she would not wear and wouldn’t go certain places unless I was with her.

              • Mrs.J

                See your wife shouldn’t even have to do all that.She should be able to go places with or without you.Men need to learn self control.

                • true, funny you mention that, again both men and women need to learn self control, I have known women to lose control and harass other women.

                  • Mrs.J

                    That’s deflection.You refuse to accept the fact that males are more violent than women.You keep bringing up instances of women harassing other women and other nonsense.

                    • when men get violent they inflict more damage than women because they are typically bigger and stronger than women however I can’t honestly say men are more violent than women!

          • some just hate men completely, that’s why they complain about everything men do even when men mean well and do right they still fine some wrong with them.

            • Annamuffin

              Like to me this story is crazy and sad but this was done by criminals. Not the average black man….

          • Mrs.J

            I honestly sometimes think it has to do with your body type.I have a skinny friend and she hasn’t really dealt with this.Only time men get disrespectful with her is at the club.Now growing up I had a beautiful curvy friend and the boys were all over her.Some even got disrespectful.I don’t know maybe I’m wrong though.

            • Annamuffin

              Well I don’t go to the club… I guess it depends on where you hangout…

        • You would like this I live in a middle class Suburbia subdivision and, one of my white male neighbors got drunk one night and went across the street knocked on the single women door went in her house took off his cloths and got into her bed and guess what he had a wife! LOL…no joke, true.

          • Annamuffin

            Eww, yuck men…

            • Didn’t you say you live in suburbia all sorts of craziness goes on in suburbia but they keep it to themselves, amongst themselves you know it but you just won’t tell LOL.. I done caught too many young black girls coming out of the woods with two or three white boys each, I done caught two white teenage girls with a little white dog out in a wooded park getting down and I startled them and made them get up, then I got scared and said to myself these two little “H” could tell a lie on me and say I did something to them. true.

              • Annamuffin

                Maybe the black girls and white boys were playing games, it is a park after all…

                • nope they were coming out of the woods behind their subdivision after have cex or putting something up into her, you know better.

                  • Annamuffin

                    Omg… I highly doubt all that was going on… Maybe she was hanging out with her boyfriend and friends.

                    • they was hanging out alright and you know it!

                    • Annamuffin

                      I still feel safe going on my night runs around the cliffs though…

                    • be careful and look out for them big cats. wouldn’t dare walk or run around them hills and cliffs without my gun with on me cause y’all got some big cats and bears out there….

                    • Annamuffin

                      The cliffs are on the ocean it’s safe, hahahaha… Plus I have whistle…

                    • good you are smart, but suppose no one hear you, you need your boyfriend with you to protect you or a gun with you, a little pistol but get you a permit to carry it otherwise don’t bother!

                    • Annamuffin

                      He comes sometimes, he dosent like that I run late at night either but its nice to have alone time with nature…

                    • Annamuffin

                      If I feel in danger I blow my whistle are just run through neighborhood…

                    • you can’t out run them big cats they are sneaky and cunning they see you long before you see them the next thing you know they will be one you.

              • Annamuffin

                Well people keep to themselves in my neighborhood…

                • you are young, that’s what you think, they are doing something but you just don’t know, catch them at the little league field, youth basketball game, cheerleading practice, girl scouts, boy scout meetings etc. or while they are drinking then it will all come out, you will be amaze of what you will hear. A young black man across the street told me that this white teenage girl who live behind them came over his house and had cex with his teenage son on the back porch, his wife got mad and took their son to the doctor and had him tested, he went over to the girl house to talk to her parents to tell them to keep their daughter away from his house and the girl grand mother told him ok, but ask him not to tell her husband the girl granddaddy because he is a racist, he don’t like black people LOL…..true.

                  • Annamuffin

                    Your neighborhood is interesting…

              • Annamuffin

                First of all what were you doing in the woods and what were two teenage girls doing with a white dog? Something sounds fishy and sinister about that story…

                • might sound sinister but it’s true, I use to work for a railroad and I walk trails, and woods are behind my house where I have caught them smoking pot.

                  • Annamuffin

                    Now I have seen people do that, but the subrubs are still safe…

                    • for the most part they are safe I almost never lock my cars and I have never heard of a break in in my subdivision but you are right they are safe until the wrong element move in and bring their habits and friends with them.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Couldn’t agree more, like I go on runs at night alone and I always come back safe. But people are so scared these days…

                    • you are right women walk in my neighborhood ever night with their little flash lights and run early in the morning about 5AM two tried to get me to run with them but I said no because my wife and their husband wouldn’t like that [they don’t work].

                    • Annamuffin

                      Hahahaha, that’s silly… You either trust your spouse are not…

                    • you are right, about that but sometime it’s about appearance, it just don’t look right, I wouldn’t want my wife running with other men. it’s not about trust or mistrust it’s about nature, natural law the natural attraction between male and female. I knew of a black men who was married to another black women he started running with one of his white female co-worker the next thing you know she came up pregnant had twins he and his black wife divorced then he and the white women got married, when men and women start doing things together innocently they start bonding then temptation set in and the next thing you know they are having an affair like my dad use to say “you can’t put man and women together cause it’s a chance they become attracted to each other then you can’t do nothing about it”.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Now that sounds like an episode of loving you is wrong… That is so sad, but your right I should be mindful of other women and their intentions with my man…

                    • see it’s a funny thing see they will start out with no intention of doing anything but run, walk or ride together or meeting up working out together but along the way something start happening at the subconscious level, then the next thing you know they start looking forward to seeing each other and if they don’t catch themselves and realize something is happening and address it to each other [and most likely they won’t because they have started liking it] one enough and stop what they are doing before it get too far out of respect for their family and spouse if they don’t do that the next thing you and they will know is they will start meeting up and having an affair. I can think of four homes and marriages broken up because of the spouses agreed that they husband or wife could ride to work with someone else husband or wife to save money or because they work at the same place the next thing they knew attraction develop and feelings grow and by the time their spouses figure it out it’s too late.

                    • Sheik Yerbouti

                      I leave the car unlocked so they don’t break a window. People will break a window to steal a dollar they see between your seats.

                    • true, you are right but we almost never have break in, over the last 25 years I can’t remember ever hearing of someone house being broken into, I did hear last week someone went into a neighbors cars but didn’t get anything but a few coins that the lady use for toll even that I thought it was her grandson and the boys he hang around with, I still do not lock my cars.

                  • Annamuffin

                    You should of been a police officer because you were always catching folks…

                    • hahahahaha doing my job at one time I supervised 17 men covering about a 200 mile territory.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Wow, that must of been stressful…

                    • stressful but enjoyable at the same time!

          • Mrs.J

            Really?He should end up on the s e x offender list.

            • white people don’t typically call the police to their house for everything they handle it in a quit way most of the times you never know what’s going on unless someone tell you and they will tell everything, he and his wife has socialize with her, maybe he got mix signal and when his wife won’t give him some or while she was sleep while he was up drinking he sneaked out of the house and went across the street to get him a piece but it didn’t work and the women told her next door neighbor and the next door neighbor husband told me and we laugh about it, you be surprise what happens in suburbia a black female neighbor told my wife that her husband had cex on the washing machine with the white married women who live behind them…LOL….all kinds of crazy stuff be happening but you will never ever here about it unless someone tell you.

              • Annamuffin

                Ok now that sounds like an episode of Loving you is wrong!

              • Mrs.J

                Yes white people don’t want anyone to know their dirty laundry lol.

                • that’s true they try to keep it amongst themselves, we only know when we live amongst them.

                  • Mrs.J

                    Well they have a whole ID channel about what goes on with them lol.I don’t care though that’s them.

                    • you are right it’s just like you see on the ID channel but most of the time it don’t go as far as killings and murders.

    • Mrs.J

      I’ve lived in Cali,Florida is a nice area, and Georgia in a rural then suburban area.It happened to me everywhere I went.Grown men were trying to talk to me when I was 11.Then once I moved to Florida it got worse.These things are happening.I think it might happen in some areas more.But women shouldn’t be treated like this no matter where we live.We aren’t meat.I’ve also had it happen at my job.A co worker was always trying to talk dirty to me.Then when I kept refusing he called me all kind of fat b’s.He was like 20 years older than me too.

      • Annamuffin

        Well if he was that persistent why not go out with him?

        • Mrs.J

          He’s only after 1 thing and he’s a pig.He sleeps with everyone at the job.

    • the men who did this to this women should be caught and beaten worst than they beat this women, this is a societal issue as a result of social engineering youth sports and activity back in the early 80s which demanded everybody get to play and no one get cut and everybody get are trophy at the end win or lose no matter how sorry you were, which has lead to a strong since of entitlement, embracement of victimhood and society where people want pity, want someone to apologize for hurt feelings, and can’t take rejections, we has a small percentage of both men and women who strike out violently psychologically and physically because of being rejected, being fired of a job or someone leaving them in a relationship or marriage or because someone won’t play with them or be friends with them. Funny, but at the same time sad, but true.

  • Mrs.J

    The truth is that lots of men have a deep seated hate for women.While others have mental issues.Women are killed probably everyday by a man.

  • OSHH

    I have not been physically assaulted thank GOD, and GOD forbid but I have been attacked verbally, called B’s, F me and once called a c*nt and sadly all by black males on the street, in public, in DC.
    Most of them way past the age of knowing better but feel as though they are entitled, entitled to whatever it is they are seeking from you and when you refuse, they attack you as a woman. I think to myself what a weak, sad bunch, so emasculated/powerless that you have to strike out at women you feel entitled to.
    I hope this young lady fully recovers.

    • Lucinda Pruitt

      I’ve been curses at and called names as well. I was called an F-ing b word a couple of times. I’ve been stalked and followed to the door of my house. I’ve been curses out. It’s ridiculous to the point that I had to start avoiding the men around me because I didn’t want their drama.

      • bored@wizerk

        Yeah…if your walking and you see a group of guys on the same side of the street, you got cross the street to avoid them.

        • Lucinda Pruitt

          I just do that or walk the other way.

      • CaribbeanGlow

        That’s all happened to me too, and I have driven past my house, which is scary, because where was I going? I thought “if I have to I’ll drive to a police station”. I’m picturing you on foot and don’t think you should walk up to your door. You just never know how crazed they are and they could do something another time. Maybe walk into a convenience store or the like. One time I was walking late at night (dumb move; decided to talk a walk and return some library materials) and a man kept circling the block and finding me as I walked home. He was yelling terrible things. Finally I had my phone to my ear and told him I was calling the police. Looking back, maybe not a good move. Anyway I saw this white couple and asked them to walk with me the remaining half block to my building. As I was telling them what happened, I began crying. It was really scary. This was West Hollywood, always busy, and quite safe, so I risked the walk alone. The couple was coming from a play and they were really cool and said they were glad I came up to them.

        • Lucinda Pruitt

          Well at least you’re safe. I am worried about the harassment many of us go through especially as black women. I’ve been called plenty of obscenities that I won’t reiterate. It’s scary. I had two of them follow me to my apartment door. Once when I arrived home from a night out on the town with my girlfriends, one of them wanted my number and this was 5 in the morning. He followed me and said he didn’t mean to scare me. It was unbelievable. I had another instance walking home late from work and one was driving in his car and kept asking me to get in his car. Pretty scary. NY state has strict gun laws but if we were allowed to carry, I would definitely do so. I advise my friends not to walk outside late and not to continue on conversation with men they’re uninterested in.

          • CaribbeanGlow

            Some women were discussing police strength pepper spray on b0ssip recently and I took notes. They said they’ve used it on men. I thought about a gun but I’m not comfortable with it, at least not yet.

        • Annamuffin

          West Hollywood is not a safe area… They have a homeless problems and shady people at ever turn…

          • CaribbeanGlow

            It varies. Where I was it wasn’t like that.

            • Annamuffin

              I live in a affluent community. Where the average house is 1.2 million and up. West Hollywood is not a nice neighborhood it’s dirty and decaying…. Besides I would never advise anyone to walk around their alone…

              • CaribbeanGlow

                That’s nice. I don’t want to disclose where I live now, in the interest of maintaining my anonymity, but where I am, my own home and the average home is the same median. When I was in West Hollywood it was higher. You might hear West Hollywood and think “Santa Monica Blvd.”, but West Hollywood also includes Hollywood Hills on the west side of Hollywood, where multi million dollar homes are the norm, meaning $7-25 million and up. I walked on Sunset that night but this guy drove up to me on quiet residential streets. It would have been much less scary if he’d done it around the crowds.

                • Annamuffin

                  I’m not going to tell you were I live either. I thought you were talking about west Hollywood were the Hollywood stars are… Because that aera is pure trash…

                  • CaribbeanGlow

                    You already told me and the Internet your exact area. It’s no big deal though; no one’s going to come after you. Yes, where the walk of fame, etc is is very dirty and trashy.

                    • Annamuffin

                      I didn’t tell you where I live…

                    • CaribbeanGlow

                      It’s okay; no one cares.

                • Annamuffin

                  Sunset Blvd still is nasty area, where you near a roscoes chicken and waffles… Because that place is dirty too… L.A just in general is a nasty city…

            • Annamuffin

              See you guys are thinking tourists trap places are safe neighborhoods. Any time you see homeless people, crazy people, an AIDS clinic and trash on the street you are not in a safe neighborhood….

              • CaribbeanGlow

                Again, I wasn’t in that part of west Hollywood. In case you don’t know, WeHo extends to Sunset Plaza and up into the Hills. It’s not just “Santa Monica Blvd”. There were never vagrants on the street near me. I’m from L.A.

              • Mrs.J

                Ann women shouldn’t be treated like that no matter where they go.Stop blaming the victim.Plus no neighborhood is 100%safe.

                • Annamuffin

                  Speak for yourself, My neighborhood is safe…..

                  • Mrs.J

                    No where is 100% safe.As you grow and mature you will figure that out for yourself.

                    • Annamuffin

                      Well I think theirs plenty of safe places to live. Especially if you have money and can afford it…

          • CaribbeanGlow

            Not in the hills. I wasn’t anywhere near Santa Monica Blvd. No homeless ever, where I was.

            • Mrs.J

              It doesn’t matter where you were you shouldn’t be treated like that.

              • CaribbeanGlow

                Thank you.

  • Secret87

    On here a woman did a story fearing blk guys. And I openly admit mines im not PC. I know what race of men did this. Same race of men who will call a blk woman a hoe if she gives into their ape like advances of affection,but a b word and a beat down if she dont want them. My story maybe next up here with my lipstick no longer on fleek and edges yank out my scalp for not wanting to be pumped and dumped.
    I asked ww. And all tell me bm dont approach them like that and if they say no it dont mean a beat down. Bm know how to come with at ww,but act like animals with bw.
    If this happens to me yall will its me because I will do a shout out to madam noir from the stretcher.

    • Mr.CommonSense

      Wow? Thats a very general statement.. so all black men do this huh? So barack obama does this? denzel washignton does this? My father whose been happily married to my mother for 30 years does this? I did this? All my friends that are happily married does this?? To break it to you, they havent did anything close to this… so chill with the r*tarded general statement… This man that did with has serious mental issues..

      • Lucinda Pruitt

        No all black men do it, but we can’t deny that too many black men are harassing and assaulting as well as murdering women over her rejecting their advances. I was walking to work a few days ago when a man was walking down beside me the other way. He then turns around as my earphones are in my ear and starts to follow me. I shook my head “No” and he continued on. Then he proceeds to start walking towards me and I tell him “I’m not interested” firmly. Mind you he’s a weed smoking, pants sagging Jordan sneaker wearing loser who clearly has nothing better than to do with his time. This is seriously irritating and annoying that we have to constantly watch our back because men can’t take NO.

        • Secret87

          I wear my earphones too or talk on phone…doesn’t work. Had blk guys cut me off with their cars too. Been thinking of when heading to work to try to pass as a boy by wearing a do rag,hoody, the works then change at work in my uniform.
          They approach bw any kind of way,but go for ww like gentlemen.

          • Lucinda Pruitt

            I had my earphones in as well and I was still subject to abuse. It’s really ridiculous. I’ve noticed that as well. Many are not aggressive like that when approaching non black women.

            • CaribbeanGlow

              Nice to see you acknowledge that. Be careful with being firm, like how you said “I’m not interested”. We have had our squabbles, but I wouldn’t want anything to happen to you. Just play along. Say you’re married or with someone. Heck, I just thought of this; we can even say we’re Iesbian. Lol. Actually no, then they’ll try to convince you you haven’t had them yet. It’s really hard to shake them when they’re determined.

              • Lucinda Pruitt

                I’ve witnessed it a few times. One time one approached me saying “yo ma, let me holla at cha.” Later on, I saw him approach the white woman “excuse me miss, I need a moment of your time.” This was a few years back but he was more respectful towards her although she did reject him. I usually say I’m not interested and I don’t divulge information to them because I don’t owe them anything. I just keep it cordial and go about my day. If it’s night time, I do not stop for anyone at all.

          • CaribbeanGlow

            It’s sad but true and I had the same thought. They don’t approach white, etc. women the way they approach us… as if we’re their property. But when they “prefer” other races they say we don’t own them. They want to own us though; that’s why they perpetuate the rhetoric that we’re not desirable. They want us there on demand, in any situation, when they say so. I’m realizing so much. The reason they find ww and other races so pleasant is because the way they treat them is 180 degrees from how they treat black women.

        • shannie4888

          Perfect description of him. That’s how most of them look.

      • Secret87

        So a group of blk guys so happen to ALL have mental illness? Wish people stop blaming it on illness they my not have,but the person. And not all people with mental illness don’t do this,so thats insulting them too. Obama is biracial raised by a white grandfather. Denzel a rare. Not all blk men,but the rate is kinda high. Bw are more victims then ww.

        • Mr. 215

          Maybe where you live, but I would like to see some numbers from around the country instead of just where you live. Oh, and the same way you said that you wish people would stop blaming it on the illness, but the person, everyone that co-signs that should remember that the next time a woman hurts or kills their child and blames it on Postpartum Depression. I remember a story recently where a women threw her brand new with the umbilical cord still attached baby out of a 7th story window and the first thing a lot women did on this website was defend and pity her with a postpartum depression defense. So I agree with you while some are mentally ill, most aren’t and should be in jail for this crap.

          • Annamuffin

            My sentiments exactly, lock her up….

        • CaribbeanGlow

          “And not all people with mental illness don’t do this,so thats insulting them too.”
          Awesome point among many! He doesn’t know what his friends do either. He isn’t with them 24/7. For all he knows the happily married ones harass women in their downtime.

    • EdinaMonsoon

      This isn’t a black man issue. I grew up in Miami surrounded by Latinos of all colors and I would get harassed by males every time I ventured out on foot.

      • Secret87

        Do latinos do beat downs when you say no? I lived near Miami and cuban guys asked me out like gentlemen. Not like wild animals at risk.

        • EdinaMonsoon

          No, I’ve never had a Latino beat me but I’ve also never been beaten by the black men I’ve brushed off.

      • CaribbeanGlow

        Mexicans are pretty aggressive where I am but they take rejection well. They never push the issue, don’t cuss you out or follow/stalk you. So I doubt they’d get violent.

      • Mrs.J

        It’s definitely not.Thoae Latino men can’t speak English put they sure know how to proposition me.I’m built like a brick house and men having been talking to me since I was 11.Now that I’m older and don’t fix myself up it has gotten a little better.I stay inside the house more too.But when I was at the mall 2 weeks ago this Latino guy kept following me and say Bonita and he had money.I was in my work uniform too looking like a linebacker.

        • Annamuffin

          Mrs j you need to move…. To funny…

          • Mrs.J

            No they need to leave me alone.

  • Guest

    The “men” in these stories are obviously mentally ill. Let’s try not to use such a broad brush with this #MasculinitySoFragile hashtag.

    • GoodGooglyMoogly

      The men who attack women or the men who call women h*** and bishes when they get rejected? Because if it includes the catcallers that is a whole lot of crazy.

    • Live_in_LDN

      No they aren’t. That is such a lazy conclusion to draw. I’ve been working with mentally ill people for 5 years and the majority of them are non violent so it’s insulting to people with mental issues.

      This problem is wide spread. Every woman regardless of race, age and social standing has at least 1 story where they felt threatened by a man who couldn’t handle rejection. Ask your mum.

      • Mrs.J

        Thank you.I live in the Bay Area and we have lots of homeless mentally ill people.They aren’t the ones doing this.It’s the men who can’t take rejection that are acting out violently.

        • Annamuffin

          Mrs j aren’t you dating a black man…

          • Mrs.J

            Yes.

            • Annamuffin

              Well then you know not all are aggressive… Just curious how old ru?

        • I hate to go there but Mrs.J think about this who’s primarily is raising these touchy feelings, hypersensitive, mentally soft men that can’t take rejections? I know the type of males you are talking about they cause trouble with well balance men also, but somebody made them like that.

          • Mrs.J

            I was just waiting on some man to blame male violence on being raised by a single mom.I will not even go there with you.Americans need to stop blaming everything on being raised by a single mom.Americans have it great compared to other countries.Some father’s teach their sons this violent behavior.Stop blaming single mothers for everything.At some point grown people have to be accountable for their own actions.

            • and some people don’t want face up and seek ways to solve problem, they just want to fight the gender war all the times, complain and play the blame game.

              • Mrs.J

                It’s not a blame game at all.This is real life.

  • Guest

    Female comic? Don’t you mean comedienne.

  • Devin Brown

    This isn’t #masculinitysofragile this is evil and mental issues. If a woman saying no drives them off the deep end that’s mental issues not masculinity issues. Any normal functioning man can take the loss and move forward so don’t paint this as a masculinity problem

    • Guest

      Exactly, but talking about the problem this country has with the huge number of mentally ill people walking around amongst us doesn’t fit the agenda.

      • Mrs.J

        All of these men killing and beating women are not mentally ill.Please stop trying to use mental illness as a scapegoat that is definitely not always the case.

        • Annamuffin

          Guest is a hypocrite…

          • Mrs.J

            Sure is.

        • look the men who beat this women should be caught and beaten just like they beat her. Man and women who unprovoked beat, kill, mentally or physically abuse other are mentally ill or just plain evil.

          • Mrs.J

            The problem is women don’t really do this but men do on a daily basis.

      • with them you just can’t have a rational dialog, these men who beat this women need to be caught and get the chit beat out of them worst than the beat this women now that being said I get the feelings there is more to this story than MN is reporting here and this is typical of MN, they are not telling the whole story here.

        • Mrs.J

          Even if they aren’t telling the whole story,she didn’t deserve to be beat by a group of men.

          • now did I ever say she deserve to be beaten by anyone?

            • Mrs.J

              Why do you keep making excuses for the men then?

              • cause all men are NOT bad or wrong, most men are good, why do you keep acting like all women are good then? why do you keep acting like women never ever do anything wrong then?……….LOL…….

                • Mrs.J

                  Women do things wrong all the time.But men are the violent and irrational ones.Let’s just be honest here.

                  • well at least we can agree on something in this dialog you are right men are the most violent he was made to be violent when needed how ever both men are women act irrational at times. The bottom line here is both black men and black women are damage and flawed [every body no matter the race or gender is flawed their is no perfect person] some so damaged they operate outside of the nature god created them [just last week three women threw their babies out of a high rise windows, not picking on women just used that as a example to show how damage we are] once we acknowledge that fact it behooves both of us to look into the mirror and each one try to do better.

                    • Mrs.J

                      You love to deflect.You’re taking everything personally also.

                    • no I am just wise enough not to carry water for my enemy, the enemy of my people and wise enough not to naïvely do my enemy bidding.

    • Mr. 215

      Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Unwelcome guest

      A lot of black men get raging mad when you aren’t interested. What this sister received is worse than the usual terrifying cuss out. Please talk about this with other black males and try to help instead of dismissing it.

      • vwells1

        Thank you!

      • Devin Brown

        I’m not dismissing it, I’m saying this is more of a mental issue and spoiled brat mentality versus a masculinity issue. I’ve been rejected but I’ve never cussed or attacked a woman because of it. That’s why I’m dismissing the #masculinitysifragile hashtag

      • Mr.CommonSense

        alot?? please sweety, stop it! Stop the lying now! If alot of men do this, then why hasnt 75% of women gotten there a$$ beat for rejecting men??? Stop being dramatic in your own mind… yes this does happen but its seldom.. plus those men are mentally ill or has deep rooted issues…

        • Mrs.J

          Lots do and don’t report it.Anthony Sowell had living victims who didn’t report him abusing them.Where I live some men target Mexican women because they know they won’t report them.Accept the truth my friend.Some men are fragile and can’t deal with rejection.I take the numbers of all men who talk to me while I’m out walking by myself.I do it out fear.

          • Unwelcome guest

            Good point. I do that too, often, knowing I have no intention to call. I even keep the number with me while I’m still in the vicinity, in case I run into him again and he demands to see if I still have it. I throw them away at home. Thank you. Good reminder for the ladies. Just take these fools’ numbers. We can see they have no checks and balances system from other black men. Other black men most often defend the abusers or stay silent. Few will check their homie.

            But do you get the “you not gone call, are you?” anyway? Smh

            • Mrs.J

              I’ve had the man actually call right then and there to see if my phone rings.They always want my number.I flip and asked for theirs depending on the vibe I get.

              • CaribbeanGlow

                They have done that to me too, and with no shame even said they were checking to make sure I gave them the right number. Wow. It’s good we’re comparing notes and getting this out in the open. I know I had resigned myself to it being a part of life, but it shouldn’t be. I usually try to take theirs (knowing I’d never call) and when I do that they often say in a menacing way “You gon’ call?!”

                • Mrs.J

                  I’ve been followed and everything.I say I’m married or even a lesbian.They don’t care.I give them my number and then they call right in front of me.I even had a couple say let me see your phone?I thought oh no now I’m gonna get robbed.But they just wanted to see the face of it and see their number when it rang.

            • Mrs.J

              Me need to accept the truth.These things are happening and this story is just really sad.

        • Raze

          It’s funny how you don’t include things like verbal assault and men stalking women who refuse to acknowledge them.
          Believe me, most of the men who act like this do NOT have mental issues – and the only deep rooted issue they have is that they think that women should throw themselves at their feet at their very beck and call.

        • bored@wizerk

          AAAALLOOTTT of men act stupid when you reject them.

        • Unwelcome guest

          Hey misogynist fvck, I didn’t say this happens a lot. I said “A lot of black men get raging mad when you aren’t interested. What this sister received is worse than the usual terrifying cuss out”. It’s right there. It cannot be edited. The nerve of you, to tell women how often this family of abuse happens. You don’t know me. You aren’t with me 24/7. I have been cussed, followed and stalked for politely declining black men. Black women are victims of violence way more than other races too. Who do you think are the perpetrators? Being cussed out and followed and stalked and verbally s e x ually abused is not okay. The abuse before the beatdown and chipped teeth needs to STOP. STOP TRYING TO SWING YOUR DlCK AROUND AND SILENCE THIS CONVERSATION.

      • bored@wizerk

        Terrifying cuss out indeed. This one dude told me he was gonna “Shoot the F#!k outta me,” (in those words) because i told him i didnt want to have drinks with him and his friend. It was scary.

        • Mrs.J

          Sorry that happened.Women keep telling your stories.We are tired of men being like this.

          • Chanda

            This needs to be a Public Service Announcement next to domestic violence and rape.

            • Mrs.J

              It really does.Maybe men will change after hearing women’s stories of being harassed,attacked and cussed out over rejecting a man’s advances.

    • Mr.CommonSense

      BROTHA YOU PREACH IT!!! Ive been rejected plenty of times, LOL, and did I ever get mad and fight the woman?? h*lls no!! I tried a second time and got rejected again and simply said, ok, it was a pleasure meeting you and walked away and that was it. Women this is a MENTAL issue to the 100th degree, is has nothing to do with ego or masculinity being fragile.

      • Devin Brown

        Exactly if a woman rejecting you makes you that mad then maybe you need some counseling and some therapy because it’s not that serious

        • Lucinda Pruitt

          Well there are many men who are assaulting and killing women over this. I’ve had men follow me after rejecting them. It’s unbelievable.

          • Mrs.J

            Yes these are things that women actually go through.Men need to wake up and accept women are tired of being treated badly by them.Women need to speak up more.The men on here are living in denial.

      • Mrs.J

        That’s you.Other men don’t react that way.

      • enlightenment

        Can you please tell me how what YOU do is a good argument for why men, in general, don’t have an ego problem?

        • bored@wizerk

          Right.

        • dcblackman

          So Men “generally” assault women when they are rejected? Sit down somewhere…

          • enlightenment

            Where did I say men generally assault women when they are rejected? Go learn some reading comprehension.

      • bored@wizerk

        Okay, maybe not you…but alot of men do.

      • Mrs.J

        You refuse to see the truth and that’s sad.

      • GoodGooglyMoogly

        That’s great that you don’t do it but it’s the other men that do behave like wild animals that make women like me avoid talking to any man like yourself on the street. I am not going to take the risk of having some strange man go off on me in public.

        • Annamuffin

          I never had black men treat me badly… But I live in a upper class neighborhood, so the average black guy is more intreasted in books then hanging out in the streets….

          • GoodGooglyMoogly

            Yes there is a class element however unless you never leave your gated community you are going to intersect with black men of all classes. LOL at the shade.

            No one is saying #allblackmen, its about acknowledging some uncomfortable facts; black women are more likely to be victims of violence (rape, disfigurement, murder). We should be just as concerned by this as we are about young men who are murdered. You read through the post you’ll see that there a many women sharing similar experiences some angry, some frightening.

            There are black women who live or work in thriving metropolises like Houston, New York, DC, Atlanta, Chicago… where there is more intersection between classes. You can be lawyer, student or fashionista taking the metro/subway, walking down the street to work and encounter these issues while going home to your upper class community.

            • Mrs.J

              I’ve actually been harassed by Latino,black,Asian and Middle Eastern.My friends friend got robbed and beat up by some Asian men when she wouldn’t give 1 her number.

              • GoodGooglyMoogly

                You bring up a good point. I think because we are talking about a crime that involved black men that there is an implication that only black men do this and its not I’ve been harassed men of all races ages and ethnicity.

            • Annamuffin

              Well I’m not going to believe black males are out to get me. I think some of you guys are a little biases and you try to put all black men in a box. Just like black males try to box all black women…

              Hahahaha, sorry for the shade but I see a few black males in my beach community that are no threat to me… Now outside of my community I’ve meet black guys at school that were flirty but never to aggressive, when I reject their advances. The black males I seen are very attractive, polite, and have a postive vibe. I would totally date one but I have a boyfriend…. 🙂

              • Lucinda Pruitt

                Environment does play a factor.

                • Annamuffin

                  Like some people on here make the black man sound like Jack the Ripper… He’s not that bad, every races has their nut cases….

    • Mrs.J

      The truth is some can’t and have no mental issue.Some men hate women and look at them as less than human.I think they learn it from their fathers or something.Mental illness isn’t always the answer.

      • Devin Brown

        I didn’t say it was all mental, and usually if men do have some sort of extreme hatred for women I don’t think they would bother trying to talk to them.
        That and the hate normally comes from bad experiences with women I.e. Their mothers or any other female relatives

        • Mrs.J

          The hate usually does stem from having a bad relationship with their mothers.Men who hate women marry women and try to talk to them all the time.You’re statement lacks truth.

        • Mrs.J

          Men need to accept the fact that they are emotional,irrational and lack control.They take their shortcomings out on women daily.This is all fact.Accept the truth my friend.

          • Devin Brown

            Did I say men weren’t any of those? No I didn’t why are you putting words in my mouth? Stop using a broad brush to paint us all like this because I know I’m not like this

            • Mrs.J

              Stop using yourself to say what other men do and don’t do.This article is something that’s has happened to a lot of women.Or different variations of it.

      • I am over sixties years of age and have worked and lived in many states and cities and have dealt with many men and I haven’t known a single man who hates women, but I have known men who mentally and “physically” abused women and women who “mentally” and physically abused men both are equality guilty of mentally and physically abusing each other that’s why sane men and women promote that we both change our disposition towards each other and stop playing the blame game like the sky is falling and all men are bad or all women are bad both black men and black women must look in the mirror and do better by each other and stop this juvenile lying on each other and exaggerating the facts cause that get use no where, it’s plain old childish and immature.

        • Mrs.J

          Women don’t harass,curse out,follow,beat or kill women nearly as much as men.Men need to ask themselves why they are so fragile and irrational and change themselves.

          • see when you have bought into the men bad women good, man good women bad narrative you start thinking ill rational on issues pertaining to gender, men and women are different god made us different we are not suppose to be alike so it makes no sense to compare the two. the universal god made men naturally bigger and physically larger and stronger than women for the PURPOSE of protecting her and her offspring from other men, women and predators [natural law], now I will leave you with that and see if you can set down and figure out the rest without insulting, humiliating or belittling men because god made them men. I will check for your reply after I get back from the farm. I will give you a clue men and women were made to COMPLEMENT each other not to be each other adversary nor to compete against each other and when we decide to operate outside of the nature god created us bad things start to happen to us, you won’t hear that wisdom on the TV, school, college in a blog or in church and why? And I bet most of y’all can’t comprehend or rap your heads around that truth before I get back I will be called all kind of names, watch. Peace out.
            Complement-either of two parts or things needed to complete the whole; counterpart.

            • Mrs.J

              You can’t wrap your head around the truth.I know God made men and women different but that’s no excuse for men to act how they act.And your obviously blaming the fact that so many women are working and I guess you feel that’s outside of God’s nature.Since we are operating outside of God’s nature I guess women deserve what’s happening to them.Women work and run the household because no good men refuse to work and be men.We are doing what we have to do to survive.I would think you beIng older you would understand that a lot of men treat women badly.For some reason you refuse to see the light.

              • you are still not getting what I am saying I am stating a fact and that is both men and women are damage and operating outside of the nature god created them not just men but women too see you want to play gender politic I don’t I am not gender driven I was raised in a two parent household with my father head of the house, my father was a good hard working man who took good care of his wife and family along with his mother and his sister and her children, my mother was a good mother although damage as a result of being molested and abused as a young girl, even though throughout my life I have had some good and bad relationship with black women I don’t hate black women they are my preference in women I love adore and admire black women. What I am saying is most black men I know are good men even though they are damage and flawed most black men in this country are good men just as most black women I know are good women even though a lot are damage and flawed they are still good women so I don’t get the concept you are propagating that all black men or most black men are bad and all black women are good which is totally untrue and unfounded.

                • Mrs.J

                  Men in general are worse than women are.Men commit all mainly all of the violence and crime in America.There are plenty of horrible no good men out there.I think your problem is that you can’t step out of your bubble.You think because you don’t know any men that attack women verbally or physically for rejecting them that it’s not happening as often.We will just have to disagree.And you’re right I don’t get what you’re saying at all.

                  • I give up you win!!!!!!!!

                    • Mrs.J

                      It’s not about winning or losing.It’s about men understanding that this is happening to us women.You might not be the ones doing it but I’m sure you know it’s going on.It’s about accepting the fact that yes some men can’t handle rejection and act out horribly.

                    • SEE YOU WANT ME TO LIE AND SAY ONLY MEN CAN’T HANDLE REJECTION AND ACT OUT HORRIBLY, which is a great big LIE, some men and some women both can’t handle rejection and act out horribly, AND THAT’S THE FACT. I will go as far and say women can’t handle rejection as well men but men don’t set them up and take picture of them, men don’t call the police on them and men don’t put them on blast on social media.

                    • Mrs.J

                      Blah blah blah.You sound so immature.You keep trying to put the blame back on women.Women are getting killed these days when they try to leave a man.So many men kill their wives and girlfriends.Women do that too but at a very small %.You just don’t want to accept the truth.

                    • due to your bias mindset you just can’t say they BOTH women and men are messed up, need counseling and healing.

                    • Mrs.J

                      Let’s just end this back and forth because you will never get it.That’s very sad.

                    • ok sister!

                    • Mrs.J

                      Please don’t call me sister.I don’t know you and the fact that you won’t admit that women are being harrassed,beaten and killed by men makes you no brotha of mine.Real brothas see the truth that lies in front of them and accepts it.You refuse to do that.

                    • ok

                  • I give up you win!!!!!!!! “And you’re right I don’t get what you’re saying at all.” I thought about that most likely we live and operate in different environments, I am a black southern man, I must admit over the last 30 years I have lived and operated in suburbia America, maybe that’s why I don’t see what you see.

                    • Mrs.J

                      I went to suburban schools and the same thing happened just not as bad.The suburban schools also had a R a p e culture.I just think you fail to step outside of your box or accept the truth.But maybe we do live in different worlds.

                    • see now when you wake up and set aside the man bad mindset and divorce yourself from white radical feminist thoughts and themes you will finally see a different world.

                    • Mrs.J

                      My thoughts have to deal with reality and not some white radical feminist movement.Women are getting harrassed on the street by men and some even get attacked for rejecting men’s advances.I don’t understand why you don’t get that.Men need to learn how to take rejection.I’m just going to end it hear with you because even though I know you know these things are happening you keep deflecting.

                    • I AM NOT DEFLECTING I just haven’t been inculcated into the “bad man” mindset I will stand on the truth and that is both women and men are damage and flawed and need healing.

              • ANY SANE PERSON CAN SEE THEY BOTH TREAT EACH OTHER BADLY…… you are still not getting what I am saying, I am stating a fact and that is both black men and black women are damage and flawed and are operating outside of the nature god created them, not just men but women too….. see you want to play gender politic, I don’t it gets us no where…. I am not gender driven, I was raised in a two parent household with my mother permission my father was the head of the household but my mother ran the house, my father was a good hard working man who took good care of his wife, family, his mother and his sister and her children, my mother was a good mother although damage as a result of being molested and abused as a young girl, I am married to my second wife of 30 tears who allowed me to be the good husband and father I am today, even though throughout my life I have had some good and bad relationship with black women, I don’t hate black women they are my preference in women I love adore and admire black women. What I am saying is most black men I know are good men even though they are damage and flawed most black men in this country are good men just as most black women I know are good women even though a lot are damage and flawed they are still good women, so I don’t get the concept you are propagating that all black men or most black men are bad men and all black women are good women which is totally false, untrue and unfounded.

    • Carpe Omnia

      Thank you. This story is gender politics at its best. Most men just go on about their day when a woman says no, but this “article” makes it seem like this woman’s story is the norm. Smdh.

      • bored@wizerk

        Not saying all men do…but it is common. Not neccessarily the beatings….but verbal assaults.

        • Nikia D-Shiznit

          I’ve been verbally abused SEVERAL times for turning guys down. I know damned well I don’t have the affinity for attracting mentally ill men. All of them aren’t mantally ill. Men, by nature, are aggressive when it comes to having sex partners. I’ve been scared for my life for “being a snobbish nitch” for politely turning guys down. There is a sense of entitlement men have when it comes to women. Not all guys are like this, but maybe the majority of them are. Whether consciously or subconsciously, there is contempt for women. It’s a worldwide, multicultural mindset

          • bored@wizerk

            It sucks. But yes I do agree with you

      • GoodGooglyMoogly

        Not true at all a lot of men get verbally vicious. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard a man go off on a woman who was just minding their business only to hear ‘Oh so you think you’re too good bish!

      • Mrs.J

        It happens way more than you think.

    • Chey

      Oop! Don’t say they’re mentally ill, men can’t be mentally ill according to the MN comment section.

      • Mrs.J

        Well not all of them are.Some men still believe that women are supposed to bow to them.It’s their ego.When a woman won’t accept a guy’s advances sometimes things like this happen.Men more so will just cuss you out though and not physically attack you.Mental illness isn’t always a factor.

        • Chey

          I’m aware of that. I’m also aware that when women do evil things mental illness is one of the first claims people make in their defense.

          • Mrs.J

            No some of those women are just evil and selfish.Lots of them just didn’t want the kids anymore.Mental illness isn’t always there.

            • Chey

              I’m aware.

    • well stated, logical and the unemotional truth.

    • J&J Security

      i agree that it was mental issues but I think the mental issues can be intensified due to something else like in this case misogyny. It’s misogyny intensified because of mental illness. A man in his “right” mind can be misogynistic without being violent.

  • RafiqaS

    And people think I’m crazy when I say I need to purchase a gun and get a concealed weapons permit to protect my self. She’s such a beautiful brave an strong Sister and what happened to her is really sad and pathetic. She’s absolutely right we should be able to say no and not have to suffer violence and brutality at the hands of whiny little boys who can’t take rejection.

    • Neva

      Women around the world simply must become MILITANT and we need to protect one another. Get a gun permit and practice. When you see your sister getting harrassed and abused try to help, protect, and comfort her.

      • RafiqaS

        Thank you I agree whole 100%.

    • Unwelcome guest

      Guess what? The one who resorted to hitting Asian women in the face with a bag of rocks because they wouldn’t talk to him was a black man. I knew it was, so I looked it up to confirm and sure enough they had surveillance of him. He was a dark skinned black man. The women suffered horrible injuries and the one interviewed had stitches.

      This comedienne sista here is great. We do need to stick together. We have no one protecting us most times. I hope she’s funny and becomes famous.

      • Lucinda Pruitt

        I believe that guy committed suicide. He assaulted almost 100 or 1000 Asian women.

        • RafiqaS

          Well good riddance then the World is a better place without him.

          • Lucinda Pruitt

            Yeah he suffered from depression also I believe.

            • Unwelcome Guest

              Who gives a rat’s a$$? Good riddance. Don’t make excuses for him.

        • Unwelcome guest

          He committed suicide and the note he left said that in 350 days he had approached 1500 Asian women and none would talk to him. He brutally assaulted 4 when he reached the end of his rope.

      • RafiqaS

        Wow I had heard of that case but didn’t think to look up the guy who did it. I assumed he was Asian like the victims but either way that’s horrible and the little boys that attack Women in this way are suffering from other deep rooted issues.

  • Tattoo

    #MasculinitySoFragile indeed. With all the crap we get as women, being stereotyped as too emotional/nagging, etc., it’s especially sad to see men get so in their feelings as if they’re entitled to our attention and time and when they get told no, they go off the deep end. News flash: ANGER IS AN EMOTION! This is why I will never pay attention these loser Men Rights Activists groups or Imhotep. You never see women regressing to this brutality. Get your life, or more importantly, get some professional help.

    • Neva

      It’s interesting that misandry exists. Do women beat, kill, men on a regular basis? Do women stalk, harass, kidnap, rape, kill men? No. You have men nowadays accusing women of hate, and I’ve been looking for the hatred but I can’t find it. Misogyny seems like itms everywhere. Not all men hate and abuse women, and there are women who may hate men and abuse but it’s not cultural. Anywhere on this planet there is not one culture that systematically devalues, oppresses, and murders men. There are many cultures that do to women unfortunately.

    • Claps

      Thank you

    • enlightenment

      I couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • ParisianChic

      agreed; very scary & sad, the war against women is real and we have to put an end 2 it.