The early twenties is a tough time for everyone in the career department. You have to work long hours. You have to do jobs you don’t want to do. You are still at the bottom of the latter, as an intern or an assistant. Men have a very hard time balancing work and personal life. During their early twenties, they must give all of their attention to their careers or they won’t work out. Women are better at giving their careers and their personal life equal attention starting at a young age. But not men.

Before, you were only ever 75 percent present in a conversation. The other 25 percent of you was scanning the room, making sure you were aware of the eligible men in it. Now you fully engage in conversations.

It would be nice to meet your one special person by having them pick you up out of a cab and carry you over a puddle before putting you on the horse they ride you off into the sunset on, but that’s often not exactly how it goes. And come on; are you really going […]

You might be scaring off that one guy you always want to talk to because you sit in the chair tucked behind the stage.

Are the standards you have more about wanting a man who’s your equal, or wanting someone who will do all the work for your life that you’re not willing to?

There are many ways to expand your dating horizons, as long as you stay open and creative -- and out of the club!

You'll be curious to try at least three of these places!