In order to survive, we had to get good at being happy alone. And then I think we got too good at it. What a mind f&$k, if I do say so myself. Now I find myself actively behaving more like a shut-in. Are you? Here are some signs.
There’s a lot of communication before the actual date these days. People want to talk on the phone or Skype or FaceTime. Introverts aren’t great at that. Using technology brings in a sense of urgency—you need to keep the conversation moving and fun—which is something introverts can’t do in a hurry.
You can jump over the barrier of awkwardness and land the boo of your dreams.
When he does join you for social occasions, he’s doing you a favor. You can sense that he’s doing you a favor. So now, you owe him one, just for bringing him along.
Not everyone you meet is going to be the life of the party.