Christian Ross, an Atlanta-based real estate broker, talks the art of dating aggressively and how it helped her find her husband.
Considering the fact that “just be yourself” is such a common piece of dating advice, it certainly feels that all of the other pieces tell you to be anything but yourself.
You could really see this man you’ve been on four dates with being the one, and being a great father. So you start looking at your finances. Could you afford a baby? There are so many unexpected costs. What are the maternity benefits like at your job? You should call HR about that.
You feel like you’re not allowed to ask questions like, will the child be living with your man part-time? What are the expectations? Is he going to take on partial custody? You know he’s already overwhelmed with answering these questions for himself, so you feel like you can’t demand answers.
When you stop emotionally investing in each of these guys, they’ll read that as a sign that you’re closed off. They don’t realize you can emotionally invest but only have so much emotional capital to go around. They’ll just think you’re uncomfortable being vulnerable.
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