Red Flags It’s Actually OK To Ignore Sometimes - Page 4

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Just how red does a red flag have to be for it to be a problem? When it comes to a new relationship, which behaviors are insignificant pet peeves, and which ones are problematic? Some behavior clearly screams “run for the hills,” but what about those red flags that fall into more of a gray area?

Not every man deserves to be an exception to the rule. But if you’ve found someone who’s perfect for you in every way — well, but in one or two ways, there’s no need to panic just yet. If you spot these warning signs, it might be best to adopt a wait and see policy.

Have you ever broken up with a man because of a red flag only to watch him upgrade himself the minute you parted ways? We’d love to hear your story in the comment section.

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He Lives with His Mother

He could have a good reason. For instance, if it’s part of a plan to save with clear steps and a timeline of when he’s hoping to leave, it might be a smart move on his part.

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Your Family Doesn’t Approve

Wanting what’s best for you can make some family members overly cautious. It’s fair to take their advice with a grain of salt — especially if they still don’t know him very well. They might change their minds down the line when he proves he’s a good catch.

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He’s Struggling

If he’s just going through a temporary rough patch, a good woman could be what he needs to help him turn things around.

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You Fuss Quite a Bit

Sometimes light fussing and fighting is a couple’s communication style. If you’re really in love, working through the rough patches in the beginning could lead to smoother sailing later on.

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His Mother Doesn’t Love You

Sometimes moms have trouble letting go when they see their sons getting serious with someone. She might learn to like you after spending time with you. And even if she doesn’t, a truly good relationship (and a partner who sets boundaries) will have the strength to survive her disapproval.

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He’s Divorced

Sometimes things just don’t work. As long as he’s not a serial divorcé, it’s OK to believe in helping to give someone a second chance at love.

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You Met Online

Did you know that Match.com has 59 million users? In 2016, finding love online is not really that big of a deal.

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He Moved in Immediately

When you go from dating to a live-in relationship really quickly, people are going to have things to say. But if other people’s opinions are the only doubts you have, it doesn’t mean that the feeling telling you to jump on in is necessarily wrong.

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He’s Never Had a Long-Term Relationship

As long as he says he’s ready for one now, there’s no reason not to believe that he could see a future with you.