Have you ever been in a relationship and your man asked for space? When men say they need space it means one of three things. Come into the complex simplicity that is a man’s mind.
It’s not you it’s me
You’re an amazing woman and sometimes we can love you so much that we don’t want you wasting your time with our nonsense. It sounds selfless but it’s really cowardice. Instead of stepping our game up and being the man you deserve we would rather allow you to walk out of our life.
It’s not me it’s you
Sometimes it’s you though. There’s nothing worse than dating a selfish person, trust me I’ve dated many. It takes courage to end a relationship. Sometimes space is his nice way of letting you go because you’re relationship has turned toxic.
I want to sleep around
Maybe you have a guy who really loves you but he still wants to sleep around. (This happens) No one wants to break the heart of the woman they love; intentionally. He thinks that if he takes space that it won’t be as bad that he sleeps around. He’s wrong, but it will make him feel better about himself.
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