Don’t you just love your girls? Your female friends are irreplaceable, mainly because of the fact that you can trust them,they support you and you’ve known them forever. But most importantly, there’s a comfort level amongst other women that you can’t get from the opposite sex: you go shopping, watch chick flicks and cry on each other’s shoulders. No judgment from any parties, and its given you the freedom to speak your mind about all things woman-related – what a golden opportunity! If these weren’t enough for you, here some more reasons why having girlfriends is important:
1. You can talk to someone who understands your point of view
Your day has evolved from bad to worse for infinite reasons: your boss failed to give you a positive review and you’re one of a handful of women left in a male-driven company. Life’s transgressions can be overcome with a little pep-talk and comfort from girlfriends. Friends often offer the best coping mechanisms during bad situations, as well as alternatives or helpful advice to get you through your ordeal.
2. Your shopping experience can be more pleasurable with your girlfriends
While on most shopping journeys, have a female friend with you. She can enjoy the experience with you, if not more than you, because you’ll both have an affinity for fashion, furniture and a lot more. It is better to bring someone who can offer you input on why a particular product does or doesn’t work for you, or better yet, supply you with coupons so you can seize those last-minute deals, for example. You’ll need a boost somehow.
3. You can vent relationship issues to her
Your romantic union has fizzled out for reasons unknown. You’re down on your luck and there’s virtually no chance that you’ll bounce back emotionally, or so you think. You just need to have a chat with your girls. They may have encouraging words that’ll help to provide the answers to your problems and eliminate the weaknesses, insecurities or flaws that may exist in your relationship. So while it is indeed nice to talk, be open-minded and willing to listen as well.
4. You have “inside jokes”
It’s always nice when one woman can make sarcastic statements about another, and the two individuals don’t trip, they just laugh about it. Why? Because they truly understand what was said. It’s an inside joke, and it’s almost like having your own language. While other people might look at you crazy and give you the “whaaaa?” face, you and your homegirl are the only ones that get what’s going on. It’s your thing. This is a noticeable find between girlfriends.
5. You can count on each other to watch sappy movies
Ultimately, it’s the sappy, romantic films that pull at your heartstrings and its one of your favorite kinds of movies to watch. Every weekend is spent curling up in front of the television screen because you are in awe over how two lovebirds came to be or how they fell apart. If you choose, you and your friends could watch reruns of the same film for pure excitement, and still enjoy it like it was your first time watching it. Try that with your boyfriend…I’m pretty sure it won’t be as fun.
6. You can both give advice on how to be a better girlfriend or wife
Friends who all share one thing in common–boyfriends or husbands–are able to expound upon their experiences while teaching each others a valuable lesson about relationships. Even though each relationship is different, you could take a situation you’ve dealt with in your relationship, such as jealousy, and talk to another friend of yours who may be going through the same thing. Deep conversations can be had on how to prevent the behavior, and you can both offer each other advice on how to have a healthy relationship.
7. You can talk openly about sex, body or health issues
For women who are coming of age, sex and puberty may be one of the most important topics you will ever discuss. And it’s also easier to discuss it with a female friend of yours who has gone through the same ordeal. You can both share information on the pains of menstruation, good and bad sex, or just talk about your thoughts and fears when it comes to women’s illnesses.
8. She will give you constructive criticism and an honest response
Consulting with a girlfriend may be better if you prefer to hear the truth and nothing but the truth. Getting your facts from a friendly source puts things in perspective as it gives you an opportunity to learn from your mistakes and also uncover mistakes you didn’t know you were making. For example, if you’re working on a project or writing a story, you can count on friends to give you healthy constructive criticism and an honest response. Their thoughts can help rebuild your confidence as you gear yourself up for the next challenge or cool you down when you think you’re too hot.
