What conclusions would you draw if you found out that your husband or wife had a secret social media account? Would you assume it’s harmless? Would it lead you to believe that they’re cheating? One man found himself in this very predicament and turned to Reddit for advice after he learned that his wife had been hiding her Facebook account.
I noticed over the last four weeks or so that my wife has been very phone-centric. A lot more than usual. One day at our in-laws, as I was walking towards her, I noticed she opened an ‘incognito’ tab on her phone.
She has been very private with her phone in the last four weeks. So much so that she rarely leaves it around or in the open. She tends to turn it over or take a second glance to make sure its turn upside down, whenever I am around.
So I checked my router logs and noticed for the past two days that she’s logged into Facebook at least 12 times.
Of course, one can argue that his wife’s actions are harmless, but hiding anything in a marriage is a red flag. And the fact that he caught her conducting herself inappropriately on the social networking site in the past has this concerned husband thinking the worst.
She’s had Facebook in the past, and she’s been ‘caught’ twice before speaking sexually/sensual/emotionally to guys. One was when we were dating for about three years; the other was after we were married for about three years. So I don’t know what to think.
How would you advise this man to handle this situation?