Dear China,
I just have a straightforward question, because my girls and I really want to know: do men REALLY care if our underwear matches?
Sincerely,
Match Made in Heaven
Dear Match Made in Heaven,
I am rolling on the floor laughing at your question, because my girls and I have the same types of discussions! I’ll tell ya, the short answer is heck no, your man is not thinking about the “matchiness” of your underwear if he’s trying to handle his business in the bedroom. Are ya kidding me? LOL!
But then, this question reminds me of another question a reader asked about what men like to see during intimacy. While I would argue that, overall, men are really and truly only interested in one thing and could care less about all the other frilly little things, I think many men–people in general–appreciate performance, gestures, and attention to detail.
The fact that you took the time to match your underwear doesn’t go unnoticed by an attentive man, especially if you approach sex as a performance. I think the tidiness and “performance” of your femininity in any way you can muster, always turns a guy on, particularly because: hey, what do GUYS have to match? Nothing! Poor things. LOL!
Do it if you can, as often as you want to, but you don’t need to put unnecessary pressures on yourself. Ask your man what drives him wild…and if the first thing he says is, “hmmm, matching underwear,” you’ve got your answer right there.
Au revoir cherie,
~ Madame C.
