Let It Die: 9 Myths About Dating We Need To Retire - Page 10
Be a Lady
There’s a host of relationship books and advice that all culminate into one phrase – be a lady. The books advise that you should embrace all things feminine, “girly” and every possible gender norm you can find in order to be attractive to a man. If those are things you like then go for it. However, “being a lady” (whatever that really means) isn’t a sure fire way to catch a man.
At the end of the day, the rules are nonsense.
If you have bad habits (like a terrible negative attitude) then by all means make changes that will allow your inner light to shine. However, no matter what all the rules have to say, the only real way to catch Mister Right-For-You is by being honest and true to yourself.
Do you know any other relationship rules to get a man? Have you followed any with any success? Do you believe in the rules? Comment below!
Dee Rene is the writer and creator of Laugh.Cry.Cuss., a faith based blog that finds valuable lessons in pop culture and every day life. She is based in NYC. You can follow her or the blog on twitter @deerene_lcc @laughcrycuss or visit the site at http://laughcrycuss.com.
