Dating And Relationship Rules You Should Never Follow - Page 12
Don’t date out of your league
We just don’t like the term “league” at all. Nobody is better or worse: people are just different. Some people perceive there is a league above their own, and that’s just because they consistently go after a type that is very different from themselves—a type that is not compatible with them—and the rejection begins to feel like rejection from some “league.” If you’re constantly trying to date super athletic/health fanatic guys, and yet you yourself would rather relax on the couch on a Saturday, and do enjoy a cocktail or two each night, as each of these men realize you’re not compatible and leave you, you’ll feel you weren’t good enough for them. But no, you just failed to accept your differences. Translation: know what works for you and not just what seems good.
