My Goodies, Not My Goodies: Reasons You Should NOT Give Up the Cookie

You Just Met Him

There’s nothing wrong with being spontaneous, but having sex with a guy you just met isn’t always the smartest, or safest thing to do. Some will say, “If they mood strikes, and there’s an attraction, then rock with it.” But sometimes having sex in the heat of the moment can cause you to make unwise decisions. If you don’t know this person, you haven’t had a chance to talk about his sexual history, if he’s had any STD’s or if he’s a stalker. One night stands can be exciting, but they can also be followed with feelings of guilt or confusion. And if you’re the type to fall in love at first sight, then your brain may be in La La Land filled with fantasies of your new boo rather than with common sense. If you’ve known him less than a week, you might want to cool off a bit and get to know him a little better.