Astrology Reading: Nelly & Ashanti Reality TV Show
ASTRO NOIRE—Fated Or Fabricated? What Astrology Says About Nelly & Ashanti’s Rekindled Romance
As I was cruising around last night, I ran across a clip from Ashanti and Nelly’s new reality show, We Belong Together. And like every other Apple-Bottom-jeaned millennial, I watched it. And yes, it was that episode. The one where Nelly flat out refuses to change dirty diapers, often literally leaving Ashanti hanging in this area.
His infamous quote is:
Baby, I said I’d give you the world. I just ain’t changing no diaper.
And digging his heels in, he told Ashanti that she was on full-time solo-dolo Mommy duty until the kid could walk and talk:
Until he can say, ‘I’m hungry,’ until he can say, ‘I need to use the bathroom,’ it’s gonna be a lot in your lap.
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Now I should mention that when I saw this clip, it was reposted by a dating and marriage coach I follow. Her take was: Ladies, be careful of the type of “helpmate” you marry. And the comments were spicy! Many were kinda split. Some felt that she had made the wrong choice. That she was a “married single mother.” Some felt Nelly is 50, a grandfather and adult dad, and he had done his part. Others questioned whether he was really on daddy duty. Others were counting the days til their divorce, and on and on it went.
As for my take? You’ve got two millionaires, a newborn, an exhausted mom, and a dad who doesn’t want to pull a night shift. Hire a night nanny.
Done.
Astrologically and intuitively speaking, I definitely noticed some interesting dynamics between these two beautifully melanated stars, so I decided to take a look. And in complete transparency, I don’t think a single soul who wants their marriage to work should do reality TV.
It’s simply Foolish…
But anyhow, let’s dive in and see what the cosmos and the cards have to say…I was able to pull both Ashanti and Nelly’s astrological charts from what I’ve been told is a reliable source. (Astro Charts: https://astro-charts.com/persons/) *Note, we make no guarantees that these charts are 100% accurate outside of their Sun Signs.
Here’s the quick breakdown of what I’m looking at:
I went beyond their Sun signs to their Moon (how they feel emotionally), their Mercury (how they think), their Mars (how they motivate, anger, etc), and of course their Venus sign (their romantic endeavors, and love compatibility).
Here’s what’s in each of their astrological birth charts:
Ashanti’s Chart:
- Sun in Libra
- Moon in Sagittarius
- Mercury in Scorpio
- Venus in Virgo
- Mars in Sagittarius
Nelly’s Chart:
- Sun in Scorpio
- Moon in Gemini
- Mercury in Libra
- Venus in Scorpio
- Mars in Scorpio
Now, all of my fellow astrology enthusiasts will see the compatibility upfront here. Ashanti’s Mercury (how she thinks/where her intellect is) is in Scorpio, which is Nelly’s Sun Sign (how we move through the world, and our dominant traits), while Nelly’s Mercury is in Libra, which is Ashanti’s Sun Sign.
This is truly the start of a winning match because it reflects that they are highly compatible in terms of their egos and mental thinking. It also means they understand the shadow and sexual elements of Scorpio as well as the feminine and luxury aspects of Libra.
In short, they are likely to be very compatible, not just as lovers but also as friends, and possibly as business partners, which makes sense given that they reunited and got married years after first dating. They probably remained cool throughout the years, even as they went their separate ways.
When it comes to their Venus compatibility, it’s an interesting mix—that becomes a bed of steamy-earthy-sensual-mud. Think of their energetic exchange like having a mud bath by the ocean in Bali at a 10-star villa.
What do I mean?
Again, Venus deals with all things sex, romance, and relationships.
Ashanti’s Venus is in Virgo. This Earth Sign placement on the planet is analytical, shrewd, adept at business, honest, and sometimes blunt—and have been said to be undercover “freaks” in the bedroom. But she’s extremely loyal to her partner. And loves to be partnered and pampered—hello, Libra Sun Sign!
Nelly’s Venus is in Scorpio – A Water Sign that loves all things, sex, the mysterious, and the forbidden. Scorpios in Venus people are also very loyal to their partners and can be very calculating, maybe even slightly cold, as to who they allow into their inner circle and who they don’t.
All of which Libras love—they love fine people and small, well-curated circles. So, as you can see, these two have what it takes—at least astrologically—to make it work. And they make some beautifully sexy “mud” (earth and water signs mixed) together.
Which brings me back to the this reality show and their brand new nuptials—will they make it? Should they have taken on a show like this so early in their marriage?
Well, let’s now tap in with the cards and my intuition. *Note, when I say a card is in the Reverse, that means when I physically pulled the card, it was upside down, which denotes the meaning of the card in a negative or weakened aspect, even if in general it’s a positive card.
When I pulled a few Tarot cards here’s what I got:
- The Justice card in the Upright, which lets me know that they will need to be fair and balanced in how they resolve problems as well as how they air out their issues in public.
- The Fool card In the Reverse: The Fool card depicts new beginnings with unexpected twists and plots. In The Reverse, it could signal that this venture may be foolish, but again, with the way their chart is set up, I think they will make it through (I hope).
- The Lovers card (2 of Cups) in the Reverse: This card signifies love and compatibility in the reverse—well, not so much.
- Finally, the Sun card in the Upright: The Sun card is one of the best cards in the deck as it denotes a blessed situation. And what I pick up from this card is that their union is blessed; however, under the glare of the public eye, they will have to be strategic as to how they move.
Now, when I tap into this psychically, I can feel their love for one another and their sizzling chemistry.
I also wouldn’t be surprised if they went forward and had an additional two children. I’m also picking up that quietly over the years they have been each other’s emotional support system and have a strong foundation of friendship and truly caring for one another. I do see that the show will highlight weak spots in their dynamic, and, as long as things aren’t blown out of proportion, then they can work through them.
Now, here’s what I’m also picking up. Nelly and Ashanti are entertainment industry veterans. They are smart, savvy and know what’s up. They made this decision in union and appear to have contracts locked down, allowing them to strategically show only what they wish to show.
They also carry a lot of Scorpio energy, which means they are well aware of each other’s shadow sides and accept them as is. But a baby does change things.
Will the outcome of doing this show ruin their marriage or enable them to survive and sail off to an even richer sunset? It’s truly up in the air. They will have to push through the online noise, focus on love and lifting each other up, and be smart about how they make certain money moves. Time will tell, but I sincerely wish them the best. As someone who grew up listening to their music during my college years, I’m really happy to see them on the screen again.
Wishing them both love, success and joy!
Psychic Zya
ZYA is a psychic medium and empath who channels messages from the divine and teaches others how to open up their own intuitive gifts. You can book a reading with her at BOOKZYA.com.
