They attempt to sabotage your success
Have you noticed that your girl is often doing silly things in an attempt to sabotage your progress in a particular area? It may not be blatant and she will likely try to convince you that her actions are harmless. However, something in your gut tells you that more sinister motives are at work. Sabotage can look as simple as bringing a dozen donuts by your home when she knows that you’re dieting or as big as “accidentally” revealing sensitive information about your personal life to your professional contacts.