We all know that, even someone just going through a breakup from someone to whom they weren’t even married can be ready to move on quickly. Sometimes, the official end is just a formality for something that died long, long ago. So, if that’s true for unmarried couples, then it can certainly be true for those going through a divorce. Divorce is a huge decision and, often, by the time a couple decides to get one, they’ve thought about it and discussed it extensively. They may have had a trial separation (or several) and even been living apart for over a year. I say this to point out that someone who has yet to sign the final divorce papers can be emotionally ready to move on. It’s just that divorce proceedings take a long time. So, you may be able to get involved with a man who is mid-divorce, there are just some things you need to know.
You might feel lied to
There will be times when you discover information about his divorce or life very late, and it can feel like he was hiding it from you. But, he might just have so much going through his mind right now and so much to keep track of that he literally just forgot to tell you.