Are You The Go-To Crisis Friend? - Page 13

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Make them come to you
You can also insist the person come to you. If they say they urgently need to see you, they can come to your place. You aren’t an on-call driver. If you’re the one giving out the nurturing/listening/free therapy, they can drive to you. Again, you’ll likely find that they just…don’t. So, you win.