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What did you do this New Year’s? Unless you threw couches from the window or wore special underwear, we’re willing to bet it’s nothing like these New Year’s Traditions from around the world.
New Year’s Eve can easily be the most planned yet unpredictable night of the year. Either you plan an epic night or you just sort of go with the flow and see where the night takes you. Some of my most memorable nights are the ones that are unplanned and free flowing. No agenda. Just fun. I’ve ended up in the most random places in the city. Going from a Hollis, Queens, house party to champagne and art on the upper East Side, with a few stops in between, in one night, is no stranger to many city flexers.
Having a great arsenal of high style and confidence only enhances those nights.
The same can be applied for New Year’s Eve. Be spontaneous. Be Free. Have Fun.
Here’s some last minute inspiration for the final night of 2014.
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Sometimes having a happy New Year comes with not-so-happy consequences. There are no instant hangover cures, but stick to these tricks and you can battle most of your symptoms until you’re body’s feeling better.
Before you head out for your New Year’s libations, be sure you know the truth behind these common drinking myths.
Christmas has come and gone and we’ve had the weekend to count our blessings, laze about in our PJ’s and decompress. But now it’s time to break out the sequined everything because, New Year’s Eve, arguably one of the most anticipated nights of the year, is upon us! Part of the fun of the holiday season is all the many reasons to dress up and this might just be one of our favorites.
We’ve spent all year working hard to look our best, and this night is the culmination of all the things we’ve put together. It is both the most celebrated and often overrated nights of the year. Women spend months planning the perfect evening, be it with girlfriends or a significant other, and then spend the same amount of time styling the perfect look to make sure theirs is a night to remember. And while we don’t know what you’ve got up your sleeves to bring in 2015 and don’t put too much stock into having ‘the most perfect best night ever’ ourselves, one thing we know for certain is that we’d like to ring in the new year looking our best. Because even if the first few minutes of 2015 aren’t absolutely perfect at least we know our outfit is on point!
NYE Looks: Glitter, Sparkle, Shine One Last Time
We’ve made it past Christmas and now our focus is set on getting our homes and lives in order for the new y ear. Cleaning, and purging are in high gear along with setting goals for the new year. At one point in time it was all about New Year resolutions, now those resolutions have been replaced with newer more relevant terms and activities to help us define how and where we want to go in life.
Vision boards are the newer, more popular replacement for the worn out resolution. The idea that if we can look at our goals and dreams in picture form they are more likely to come true can be argued but from a personal perspective, I’ve seen many people place random and somewhat ridiculous items on their vision boards year to year only to see those magazine cutouts manifest themselves in true form. I’m a believer!
With the growing popularity of the vision board, many who have grown weary of the New Years Eve night life are trading in their cocktail dresses for intimate evenings in with their girls. Nothing like having a bunch of girl friends over with old magazines, scissors, glue a and a few cocktails sprinkled in with girl talk to usher in the new year.
If your circle wants to stay in consider throwing an impromptu vision board party to set the new year off right.
Here are 10 must have items you need to host an epic vision board party.
Balloons: No party is complete without balloons. Make them serve double duty, use them as décor during the party and when it is over have party attendees write one thing they wish to release in the new year on the balloon and let them go at the conclusion of the party
Crafting Supplies: Magazines aren’t the only supplies needed to create a vision board. Utilize glitter, stickers, stamps, markers and other decorative items. Let your creativity show.
Frames: If your party is a manageable size consider purchasing cost effective frames for your guests. Plain poster or foam board is unappealing. Offer your girls the ability to frame their vision board into a piece of art they can artfully display in their homes. You have to see it to believe it.
Signature Cocktail: Name the drink after one of your major goals. Who won’t drink to prosperity or success
Finger foods: We all know how it is when you are chatting, and sipping with the girls. It’s usually a nibble and tapas type of situation. Keep the eats light, easy and flowing
Table covering: Keep your table protected from glue, glitter and other casualties by employing a cute functional table cover. Brown paper rolls would serve the purpose and can be round at the dollar store. Draw on it to add a little fun and a decorative touch. Maybe even consider assigning seats and writing names on the paper to keep the conversations flowing.
Magazines: Of course you need them, lots of them. Ask your guests to bring a handful from home if they have any. The more the merrier
Favor Bags: If feasible consider heading to your local dollar store and purchase each guest their own personal glue, scissors and other items they will need for the evening and place them in a reusable bag or bin.
Party Hats and Noisemakers: It will be New Years Eve, have fun ringing in the New Year with some of the traditional items.
Camera or phone tripod: It’s always so hard to get everyone in the picture. Consider setting up a tripod and using the timer function on a camera or phone to make sure that everyone is able to be included in the photos from the evening.
It was 1:30 in the afternoon, a time when perfectly sane people are hard at work, but that only partially described me. I was wholly crazed and wild-eyed, tussling with pages and pages of research I’d compiled for a paper I was writing in my pursuit of a master’s degree in African-American studies. My professor was a short, stoic Ghanaian man—I could only recall seeing him smile once and even that was more of a grimace of politeness than genuine glee—and he made one thing clear: anybody who didn’t have the project on his desk by 4 p.m. could forget about getting any kind of grade, much less that desirable first letter of the alphabet.
He’d explained the details of the assignment a good three weeks before it was due and I’d jotted copious notes to reference when I was ready to get started. The latter proved much harder than the former. I piddled away those 21-odd days leading up to the big deadline doing only heavens knows what when I could’ve been working incrementally towards getting ‘er done and done thoughtfully, carefully and introspectively. That would’ve been too much like right.
Instead, I found myself pounding out the first marginally coherent thoughts that came to mind a day and a half beforehand in order to make page count. Later for impressing him with my grasp of information and personal insight. For a little more than 24 hours, I couldn’t sleep, I barely ate, I didn’t set foot in a shower and—I ain’t too ashamed to admit it—I wasn’t even thinking about swishing a brush around the inside of my mouth. Every minute was emblazoned with urgency and none could be spared for the sake of self-care and hygiene.
When I had finally scratched out something resembling a finished product, I burned up the highway in what I slept in, hair sprazzled around my head like cactus spines, and made it to his door at 3:48. He wasn’t even there.
I am a perfector of that most classic form of self-sabotage—procrastination. It’s been a cemented hurdle in my academic career before it crept up in my professional career, and it’s one of the few things that’s regularly made me curse my own fool self out. If tradition had its way this New Year’s Eve, I would’ve been sprawled across the living room floor with some colored Sharpies and a piece of white poster board, scrawling out a detailed list of goals to accomplish before it was time to perform the ritual again next December. That wasn’t the move for 2014.
Read more New Year’s resolutions at Essence.com
In all honesty, while we’re just now learning about the child Dwyane Wade fathered while he and Gabrielle were on break, we’re sure it was something she knew about months ago. And perhaps she’s had the chance to swallow that bitter pill and move on with her relationship. Clearly, if she accepted the rock.
So perhaps it should come as no surprise that the two wanted to bring in 2014 on a different note. In a different country. Dwyane and Gabrielle rang in the New Year in the western Bahamian Island, Bimini with friends AJ Johnson, Udonis & Faith Halsem and Chris and Adrienne Bosh.
Had the past week’s news cycle not been like it was, we would have written these photos and D. Wade’s accompanying caption off as just a newly engaged couple celebrating their New Year and upcoming nuptials. But now we’re reading into every little thing. Sad. Check out the photos from their vacation and D Wade’s telling caption on the following pages.
My own limited research has shown me that women tend to take texting far more seriously than men do. We’ll agonize over word choice, the intention behind our tone, how the recipient might perceive our tone and even where to place punctuation. I know I could be exposing my own neuroses, but I’d bet good money that I’m not alone. In fact, I’m guessing that quite a few of you are starting to get a little anxious right now, debating about whether or not you should send a “Happy New Year” text to your ex. It’s a loaded question right? Well, when in doubt my momma always told me to make a pros and cons list. So check out the reasons why you should and should not text your ex.
You wouldn’t mind reconnecting
If you feel like homeboy might be the one that got away, by all means go ahead and reach out. Striking up a conversation with a man from the past and the fear of rejection can sometimes make you nervous but holidays have a way of softening people. This would be the perfect time to put your feelers out there. If you’re lucky his response will shed some light on whether or not he’s still interested.
You’re truly over it and you want to be friends now
If you know that you know that you know you’re over your ex romantically and would like to keep that person as a friend, then by all means go ahead and wish him a Happy New Year. But don’t be surprised if he interprets your reaching out to mean something else. Which brings me to my next point…
You know how to say no
The Happy New Year text opens up some floodgates. And you have to really know what you hope to gain from this exchange before the waters come rushing in. So, if you just meant to be friendly and he’s asking you what you’re wearing right now, you have to know, beforehand, that you’re strong enough to shut the flirting down…immediately. If even a tiny part of you entertains telling him what color your panties are, then you probably aren’t over him. And shouldn’t text. If, on the other hand, you’re confident in your shut down skills, text away.
You genuinely want to wish that person good luck and good fortune in the new year
If you’re still cool with this person and you know 2013 was a rough year for him or her, there’s nothing wrong with letting that person know you care about their happiness and are hoping things start looking up.
The holidays are here and of course we love the food that comes along with it. Sure most Americans are all about turkey and ham for Christmas, but we’re shouting out the traditional holiday food within the African diaspora that we can’t get enough of.
Guyanese Pepper Pot, Garlic Pork and Plait Bread
This treat derived from Guyana’s Arawak (Amerindian) culture. Pepperpot is the national dish for Guyana and is usually served during the Christmas season along with plait bread, which looks like a lock of braided hair. Pepperpot is a meat stew made with casreep (a dark sauce made from cassava root). Garlic pork is a dish that was brought to Guyana from their Portuguese settlers. The pork is pickled and then deep fried. It is usually served with plait bread, as well.