10 Things that Men Check Out About Women

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November 17, 2010 ‐ By X-Man

Men are smitten by different things: some are booty-ologists, some men are taken by long hair or a nice smile.  But if you’re missing a particular asset, that doesn’t leave you sexually bankrupt, because you never know what’s going to get that man going.  You can think of a man’s attraction to be like money in a bank account: It doesn’t matter if you fill it with five dollar bills, ten dollar bills or twenties, you just have to have a certain amount in the end.  So, even if a guy is a leg man, a woman with average legs might still get him by having a great smile, and a stellar personality.  Missing one thing doesn’t kill your sex appeal.  Here’s a short list of the things that men notice about women.  You may know some of this already, but you’ve never heard it quite like this:

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  • John P. Serrao

    YES!!! YES!!! ….OH YES!!! (Can I imitate sex sounds here?) More legs please. He He.
    (*Guilty chuckle*)

  • John P. Serrao

    Ewh!!! Not the men like me! We are NOT looking for a settle-down, committed woman. I thought those were the ones in the mental health psych ward. (Committed….ya know???) LOL

  • Jack Offa

    Leave the hair down! Fancy and pretty is TOO MUCH and turns us dogs off. Thank you. Drive thru.

  • John P. Serrao

    Once again, its not all about the breasts or their size. You ladies NEED to be educated on the real deal with us. (Most of us that know better and are experienced and gracious, that is.) A lot of us are actually turned off by really big breasts. A or B cup is fine with me, but I am fine with just LOOKING at any larger ones…Then again, I wouldn’t turn down playing with them either. LOL!

  • bbbettybu

    Okay. I’ll give you that. Men are visual creatures. They can fall in love with the goods and mistake that intense attraction for the real thing. At least in the first two weeks or so of dating. Then they find out there is a real person under the boobs and butt. That can make it or break it. But, and I’m only speaking for myself here, I’d say it’s more of the total package that attracts. I’m a tall, slender woman. I’m not gonna suddenly grow a big tush or big chest and I don’t like walking around looking like a princess on a float with the fake wave and pasted on smile. I know I have good things to offer. I work out my body and my mind. If a man isn’t up to the challenge of dealing with a woman of substance, than good riddance. I do not play games and that puts me in the, “hell no, that girl’s never gonna find a man. She’s looking for a needle in a haystack” category. But, if it’s one thing I do know, it’s that you’ve got to play yourself. Maybe that self is spending a little more time taking care of the surface areas when it’s trying to attract a bee to the honey, but in essence, yourself is the only thing worth offering up, big boobs or no.

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  • Cathyie

    10 "physical" things that women check out about women.

    Be clearer in the future….so we won't waste time reading this old news.

  • barbra

    PLEASE CHANGE those same photo shots, Do you need writers or an advisor to reply to certain letters, if so, I am ready, read my replys. My friends think I can think like others feel. Please change your next photos quicker.. This is like reading old mail. You get tired of seeing them…

  • http://www.DiamondStylz.com Diamond Stylz

    Men are visual creatures…there is not getting around it……a man of substance looks at the outside AND in. This why it important for a woman to work on her appearance and brain power.

  • Rianna

    I find this ridiculous. It's no wonder real women like myself want to now remain single, or for the others become lesbian – It's because of "males" looking at the physicality and what they see as "nice aesthetics" of a woman, before actually getting to know them, what their about, how they think, their mindset etc.

  • ultramagnetic74

    they really could have stopped after number 2

  • Princess

    What makes me laugh at white people is this kinda of talk. The "race" talk. You guys are EVERYWHERE! So why is it all of a sudden "offensive" when the editor uses only women of color? Get over yourselves. All women are beautiful, and the deserve to be recognized. Thank you Madame Noir for giving us a place to shine (since there's not much billboard or commercial space for us).

    Ms. P

  • Hasssoni

    Hello, I thought the article was right on target, I am a 60 y/o female with some history We come in all sizes and shapes you highlighted the 2 most important attributes and that is the key and that is what's inside and a smile,the rest you can BUY. (SMILE). Hassoni, MILE HI DIVA

  • c.camille

    this article is nothing new!

    i have known about this list since i was young. quite honestly, who cares. we need to have an article that address -10 things that women check out about men-. everytime i turn around there are these articles everywhere. it needs to stop!

  • annette m brown

    All women are beautuful! Regardless of race! What does race have to do with it? Not one single thing. Please people! Lets make sense. White bread with a lovely, beautiful, charming black women. Lets just learn how to love one another.

  • Meleah

    Really? I've noticed that over the years black people have become more racist than anyone else on the planet. What's up with that?

  • j

    racist comments and then u dnt want rasit [BAN] in the world

  • Mary Jane

    At first I thought this was a funny site, until I realized it's a bit racist. Sorry that I'm not black but I think my Native American/French Canadian booty is every bit as nice as any of the ladies on the list. There are beautiful women of every race.

  • Janice

    where is the love PEOPLE

  • Gee

    Beyond the shallow: Hey ladies chk #9 '…down 4 whatever'

  • Gee

    Interesting… I especially like the one about being able to hang in there when the going gets tough… that was beyond the shallow. Thanks.

  • melody

    4 beyonce to have all that damn money she cant never keep that hair done, no oil sheen or nuttin god damn girl what. the hell u doing

  • http://vann-digital.com/ Vann Digital Network

    I see the ugly, brokedown women done came out LOL!!!

  • hi

    So from all of that you can only pick up on Angelina SHUT IT MATE!

  • http://helium.com/users/540239 Christina Bernice Bu

    Seriously, the comments on Angelina Jolie disgust me. It's not that serious to be talking about people like chopped liver. I don't even like her but that really was shallow & disrespectful to me…I'm tryna be an upstanding woman, an example to younger generations. I support outer beauty but when it's emphasized over what's inside, that's dead wrong!

  • Jill

    Nice to see nearly all your models passed the Paper Bag Test. You disgust me.

  • tbone

    Ok after the physical attraction a woman must be smart and attractive at the same time.. that makes her beautiful..

    I know some beautiful woman, but dumb as a board, I know some smart woman, but not that easy on the eyes…

  • Tyler P

    I like all the above, but one thing that really gets me going is a lady's HIPS! I think that most intelligent men are into intelligent women and vice versa.

    I appreciate this list b/c it lists the obvious, and the internal/spiritual, but also in my opinion puts a nice spin on for the ladies, so as not to put them off in the "that's how guys think so get over it" spiel. Or maybe it does… Nice comments, for the most.

  • Grace By Style

    Well, these things may attract them but you have to have more to offer to keep them. These features helped my beautiful cousin attract five husbands, each of whom only stayed with her less than six months. Now, she is looking for number 6. When women like Halle Berry, Janet Jackson, Nicole Murphy, etc…are divorced or cheated on by their men, looks is clearly not enough. Get your priorities in order sistas and then you can attract the men that will value what you value. That way you won't just be catering to his wants and needs but both of you will be bringing something to the table that each of you will enjoy.

  • Jones

    My husband is a butt man as well…he likes boobs, but the butt wins everytime…oh yeah, he doesn't like weaves…lucky for him I don't either…

  • Kumi

    @ ms.c_so_beautiful: Women like you are the reason so many good men end up giving up on trying to find a good woman. Clearly you don't know the first thing about respect or being in a meaningful relationship. You can't have a relationship with yourself and be the man in that relationship, and no woman is gonna do for you what a man can. So wise up. True facts.

  • bella

    BY THE WAY 1) PHOTO OF MS B WAS TAKEN MANY LIGHT YEARS AGO, WHEN SHE STILL HAD HER OWN BODY, HAIR AND FACE! HA!HA!

  • ms.c_so_beautiful

    THIS ISTHE MOST DUMBEST TOPIC I EVER HEARD OF .WHO REALLY CARES ABOUT WHAT A MEN REALLY WANTS. THE ONLY MEN THAT SHOULD WORRY ABOUT LOOKS AND WHAT THEY WANT IS THE MEN WITH MONEY AND POWER TO CALL THE SHOTS. THE REGULAR JOE HAS TO TAKE WHAT EVER HE GETS AN NOT COMPLAIN…..BECAUSE OTHER THAN MONEY WHAT DOES A MEN REALLY HAS TO OFFER A WOMEN ..NOTHING……TRUE WORDS ….

  • http://glomogo.blogspot.com G-Lo

    Why is Raven pictured under "Beauty is skin deep"? She's gorgeous…

  • SKY

    Booty is in the eye of the beholder !!!!

  • jay

    thats a weave by d way…couldnt fnd any black women with real beautiful hair?

    i guess fake har attracts fake guys

  • Quilombo

    1. has self-worth, 2. has a direction (goals), 3. is open-minded, 4. is real with self, 5. has nice body, 6. has pride in self, 7. can give as much as she takes, 8. has no baby daddies, 9. is adventurous

    10. can speak her mind

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  • http://freshradiantskin.com Michelle Howard

    Ha, indeed men have their various likes.

    My husband is a butt man. You can have little boobies but a butt is a must!

    By the way, I absolutely love this blog. I found it on Google yesterday. You write some deep thinking posts.

    Thanks,

    Michelle