‘I’m Not Me Without Him:’ Karrine Steffans Speaks On Strange Relationship With Lil Wayne And Leaving Her Husband

December 3, 2012  |  

Source: WENN

Karrine “Superhead” Steffans, the notorious video vixen who has had no qualms about publicly discussing her former relationships with high profile rappers since the release of her 2005 tell-all, Confessions of a Video Vixen, seems to have no issues with discussing her current ones either. In a recent interview with Vibe Vixen, the three-time New York Times bestselling author held nothing back as she discussed her multiple marriages, her divorce, and her ongoing relationship and love for Lil Wayne.

On still being in a relationship with Lil Wayne although she’s a married woman:

We were together up until a couple of months ago, while I’m still married to my second husband, while I’m still in Vegas with Lil Wayne. All this is going on at the same time.

On remarrying her current husband to get away from her ex-hubby, Darius McCrary: 

My first husband [Darius McCrary] and I were good friends for like eight years before we started dating, then we got married and that marriage was tumultuous. It ended in divorce but we were still living together after our divorce, then all of a sudden I up and married someone last year unbeknownst to [Darius], just so I could end that relationship. The person that I’m married to now, I don’t even know this person. It was really just for show… It was very difficult to break those ties. But that didn’t even work because my first husband came back.I can’t shake Darius to save my f***ing life. Wayne has been in my life this whole time.

On the status of she and Wayne’s current relationship:

Wayne and I have kept a relationship through my two husbands, his three kids, three additional baby mamas, three of his albums, three of my books, three of his arrests, one year in prison and three engagements on his part. We are indestructible and I find it fascinating. I’m in constant contact with this person every day, every other day. He is a part of my being. I’m not me without him. He makes me very happy, [but] I couldn’t be with Wayne. I couldn’t live Wayne’s life… That relationship is everything to me, but it’s not what people think it is. It’s not sexual and it’s not financial. It is very spiritual and he’s like my battery pack. When I’m down, when I’m in a really rough space, he always pulls me out of that and he has no idea what he’s done for me.

Although the reformed video vixen says she couldn’t “be with Wayne” it is interesting that she left her husband and not long ago, Lil Wayne told MTV‘s Sway that he plans on seeing himself “happily married in the near future.” I wonder how his alleged girlfriend/fiancee feels about this “spiritual” relationship Karrine has with Wayne.

What do you think about Karrine talking about Wayne all the time?

Jazmine Denise is a writer living in New York. Follow her on Twitter @jazminedenise

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  • Guest

    What in the world is lil wayne doing these women!!!! Lawd have mercy!!!

  • GuitarJam

    feel bad for her kids

  • Jay

    Thou shall not judge

  • yourgrammarsux

    “she and wayne’s?” are you effing kidding me? go back to school and learn some grammar!

  • feel sorry for the dumb rastafarian who wifed her up

  • pussy_mvp

    dam you give good head like that

  • scandalous7

    this is extremely messy

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  • What a hot f*cking mess! A woman her age ought to be ashamed of being such a runaway trainwreck! But we know shame is not an emotion she will ever be familiar with. I swear Lil Wayne the magical leprechaun roach must bamboozle these ho’s with magic dust cause I swear he puts them in a trance.

    • Truthbetold

      It’s so sad, this is a very torn and emotionally damaged chick. I really question the artist or anyone who gets involved with this disturbed young lady. She has a history of what she does. She’s known not by her name “Superhead” itself , but the people she was involved with and has exploited in her books. Yet more of them continue to deal with her. I feel sorry for her the more I read about her, because it reflects how deeply disturbed and damaged she is without repair. So if you get involved, you’re setting yourself up, especially by a well known person that has outspokenly let it be known what she about and will do.

      • Sleeping with her has now become a status symbol, a right of passage in black Hollywood. Disgusting really.

  • so in more interesting news….the homeless man is barefoot

  • Pooka78

    Really Madame Noire, your wasting your good web space on this RATCHET! I see she’s off her Meds…Broad crazier than a lot lizard

  • female

    Now I understand the first ‘blabbaring’, unknown hoodrat saw an opportunity, fine. But she has continued to drop names, this is just sad now…her whole ‘career’ is built on being a kiss and tell…embarassing. Sad what happens to these types of women, especially when they justify it.

  • Kaori

    If she is not herself without a man, then she has a lot of self reflection to do.

  • Black woman lost…The sad part is …she thinks this is ok. Jumping from man to man and not taking time to find herself. Whats even worse is she has a son. This is what shes teaching him. He doesn’t even have a chance.

  • i feel sorry for her more than anything. folks aren’t born with her issues they’re created over time. i’m not going to tear her down and call her names especially since i don’t know her. what i do know OF her suggests that she has low self-esteem and warped sense of reality. again, i feel bad for her.

    • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

      I hear you, and your compassion for this woman is admirable. I care more about her son in this particular situation.

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  • yeppers

    Chile…and all the while this dude goes on and engages and marries other people???…This is proof that wayne hooks up with nothin but FOOLISH/IGNORANT women. From all his baby mamas that are “FRIENDS” to his fiances. No real woman would have him, hunny KArin or KArrine, SUPERHEAD or whatever her name is would be UNDER A BUS SOMEWHERE if she had ANY contact with my man like that. But hey Wayne or no man like him would ever be my man anyway. So we wont even have to go there. a heaux deserves a heaux i guess.

  • Natasha T

    Even hearing about this heaux gives my computer a STD! That’s how n@sty she is!

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  • Olympus

    *cough* *sneeze* this broad keeps coming back like a bad cold…can’t get rid of her ughhhhh

  • Ce1999

    Her statements about Wayne are just creepy and spooky.

  • JaneDoe

    I just can’t take anything this woman says seriously…

  • Sevn

    Too dam* thirsty. She was just on TVOne last week fo Merlin Santana too, smh.

  • ANTMilf

    Interviewing this skanch is like talking to a brick wall, a waste of time!

    • MrsB

      Wow….judgement from ANTMilf?! unheard off #gasps

      • MrsB


      • ANTMilf

        Not judging, criticizing!
        Must be a Superhead stan or something!

  • gr8p

    She is cray. That is all can be said.

  • GirlSixx

    This chick is really delusional. She just tryin to keep her name in the headlines, I seriuosly doubt LIl Wayne is checking for her LIKE THAT!!!!! spiritual my azz. *psshhfffff*

  • ConfusedByThis

    I have to reread to fully understand this

  • realadulttalk

    Why is anyone interviewing her??? That confuses me–there are far newer industry h*es they could be chatting with…ones that might actually be telling the truth.

  • KKimberly

    Who keeps inerviewing her and for what? Wont she just go away already… take Kim Kardashian and Tamar Braxton with you.

    • Cleo

      Yesss!! And Kat Wiliiams because his little midget spasms are becoming too much as well.

  • Meyaka

    Wow I could totally see lil Wayne as a spiritual guide 0-o

    • JaneLane

      Me to….me to…..I prefer him to fix my life over Iyanla Vanzant…..Said no one ever! She’s an idiot!

  • SocialButterFly

    she cray!!

  • bluekissess

    I could care less.

  • brooklynarcher

    I’ve heard lil wayne talk fondly of nicki minaj and their awkward relationship, i heard him talk of Trina too but i have yet to hear him comment on karrine and his relationship. She’s coming off looking real groupish, stanish, obsessive!

    • JackieO

      He’s embarrassed! and that’s prolly had to do…..This chick

    • Miss_Understood

      He’s mentioned her in songs (I know, I should be ashamed that I know…) lol, maybe he doesn’t really discuss their relationship out of respect…seriously, I just used the word respect in reference to SuperHead…smh

      • brooklynarcher

        lol i feel you but what rapper hasn’t mentioned Superhead? I mean like him mentioning her as Karrine Steffans. ..i haven’t encountered this

  • She’s proud to be bad

  • ieshapatterson

    The prime definition of hot mess.

    • TRUTH IS

      I do believe women should have some class. Karrine has a lot of class; low class!!!

      • ieshapatterson

        Lol video hoes usually don’t.

  • She is insane.

    • Trisha_B

      She really is sick. Like it’s sad lol. Didn’t she fake a pregnancy? I’ve heard Wayne mention her in a song before. Wayne talks highly of the women he deals w/ on a certain level. But i don’t hear him talk of her. Plus he’s been real low key since he’s been w/ his new girl Dhea. If Wayne actually married the chick, Karrine may have to go on suicide watch…WHere is her son?!

      • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

        That is my question…where is her son? What kind of parent modeling is she displaying for him?

  • Ewww!