How to Learn from the Alleged “Eddie Long” Situation & Protect Your Kids

September 29th, 2010 - By Boyce Watkins Ph.D.
I am not one to presume that the Bishop Eddie Long was guilty of harming any of the young men in his care over the past several years.  But I am also not one to look past the fact that many young men are accusing Long of wrong-doing.  We also must notice that although Bishop Long said he was going to fight against the allegations, he never came out and said “I’m innocent.”
We know for a fact that sexual abuse occurs all throughout our society.  We’ve had scores of church leaders, politicians, teachers and scout masters admit to abuse in the past.  Someone’s child is likely being abused right this second.  The psychological damage lasts a lifetime, and once it’s happened, the effects are irreversible.
According to the United States Department of Justice, 67 percent of sexual abuse victims are under the age of 18.  Also, 34 percent of victims are under the age of 12, and one-seventh of all victims are less than six years old.  Predators take advantage of those who are most vulnerable, and if parents are not on our jobs, our kids become the biggest targets.
Here are some tips on how to protect your children, both young and old, from possible sexual abuse.  The information was gathered from a round up of tips I’ve received from psychologists, police and child protection experts.  Please make sure you apply these ideas when taking care of your little ones, for it will make all the difference in the world.
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    I've already developed a code. First is that no one will ever kill mommie or daddie because we have bigger guns. Second is you are never the one to blame. It is never your fault. If a man ever makes you feel uncomfortable call us or dial 911 just to have it on record, time and place.

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