Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Kim K. Pulls High Profile Men Despite Her Sexual Past

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September 12, 2012 ‐ By madamenoire

By Damon Young

I am not a fan of Kim Kardashian. I am also not not a fan of Kim Kardashian. “Indifference” usually describes the feeling I’m attempting to convey, but ‘indifference” isn’t strong enough of a word to describe how indifferent I am. Basically, I feel the same way about Kim that I feel about bonsai trees — I know some people like looking at them and others enjoy chopping them down, but if bonsai trees stopped existing tomorrow, “Damn, that’s too bad about the bonsai trees” would be the last thought I ever had about them.

That being said, I am fascinated with how much other people seem to be fascinated with her — a fascination that usually manifests in three separate ways

1. People fascinated with “Kim Kardashian, incorporated”

2. People fascinated by the fact that Kim Kardashian is so damn famous

3. People fascinated by and upset with the fact that Kim Kardashian still manages to be sought after by men despite doing basically everything women have been taught not to do to have men still seriously interested in them

Number 3 is of particular interest to me because, well, women around me (and by “women around me” I mean “Black women”) seem to be very interested in getting to the bottom of this.

“Basically,” to paraphrase their collective wonderment “how does Kim continue to get so much love from so many high-status men, and would a Black woman be able to do the same things she has done and still be successful?”

“It’s kinda complicated” I reply, “but not really complicated at all”

“Huh?”

“Lemme explain…”

1. Regardless of how you personally feel about Kim Kardashian, it is a fact that there are very many people (men and women) who think she is absolutely gorgeous. In fact, there are people who don’t just feel that Kim is the best looking women they’ve ever seen, they think its not possible to be better looking than she is. She is literally their epitome of female beauty. This matters because of something we all should have learned on our first day of Kindergarten: Life isn’t fair, and pretty girls and cool/high status boys play by a different set of rules than the rest of us. 

As long as Kim retains this status, there is nothing, I repeat, nothing, she can do to have men — well, some men (more on this below) — not interested in her. Just as a high-status man can continue Fawking up and still have women coming back (Hi, Stevie J), her looks give her a perpetual mulligan, and she will continue to get second, third, fourth and fourteenth chances that most other women won’t.

2. Alsoand this is a fact that people seem to forgetKim’s ‘relationship appeal” seems to be very limited. Yes, very many men and women find her very physically attractive, but the men she’s been publicly linked to — athletes, entertainers, and brothers of 90’s pop starsare guys who, if they weren’t dating Kim, would probably be dating some other “urban model,” stripper, or groupie. There are no future doctors, lawyers, Obamas, or Cory Bookers lining up to wife Kim. In fact, even the more “corporate” Black athletes and entertainers, people like Jay-Z, Will Smith, and Lebron — men fiercely protective of their image — wouldn’t marry someone like her. Water tends to find its own level, and by dating several barely literate athletes and entertainers, Kim seems to have found hers.

I’m bringing this up because while many seem to think that non-Black women are given certain passes in regards to sex that Black women aren’t, women with public sexual histories lose points with men of all races, not just black men. Yes, it’s a double standard, but it’s a double standard that transcends race and culture.

As far as Kanye goes, I (obviously) don’t know what’s going on inside his head. But, I do know that this is a man who dated a Philly stripper for a few years and wrote a song on his last LP about falling in love with and marrying a adult video star. Basically, Kanye is just…different, and nothing about his relationship with Kim should surprise anyone who’s actually been paying attention.

Lastly…

3. If you flip through the pages of Jet Magazine or snoop through any of your friends’ Facebook profiles, you’ll undoubtedly come across some wedding albums. And, if you happen to know the people in the wedding albums, one thought may occasionally pop into your head:

“Wait…how the hell are they married? Wasn’t “The Hallway” her nickname in college? Who in their right mind would marry her???”

Yes, it is true that a person’s sexual past does have an effect on how they’re perceived. And yes, it’s also true that we’ve been taught that certain behaviors will make a person “undatable” or “unwifeable.” But people (men and women, White and Black) with full cemeteries in their closets get proposed to and married everyday.

I’m not saying that a person’s past doesn’t matter — trust me, everything that happened and is happening now affects everything that will happen in the future — but it’s not a death sentence either. Perhaps you won’t marry an NFL star or popular rapper, but, well, you probably weren’t going to anyway.

Pittsburgh native Damon Young (aka “The Champ”) is the co-founder of the ridiculously popular VerySmartBrothas.com. Their first book “Your Degrees Won’t Keep You Warm At Night: The Very Smart Brothas Guide To Dating, Mating and Fighting Crime” is available at Amazon.com

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  • la yoyo

    america ,,, america ,,,why r black women so bitter? i am a black woman living in europe a i really dont have that problem here! black men love there black women,,,and the white men cant live with out us, it seems like in america is still cought op with the past, slavery ! here in europe every body is mixing with everybody we dont look at color or race,,, is just to sad,

  • eleriero

    ….why do people give a damn about who other people date in terms of
    race? All I’ve seen on here are bitter men and women who seem to be
    pissed off because they can’t get any love from ANY race.
    I don’t
    care who you date, but don’t sit here and judge others by the people
    they attract and date based on the color of their damned skin! Have we
    not EVOLVED from that line of thinking yet? Are we, as a race, still
    that damned insecure about this stuff?
    That’s actually sad and pathetic.

  • TruthTeller

    White men wouldn’t wife this chick up. She is only wanted by stupid black men. Kim K would kill to have a white Hollywood A list actor, singer or athlete as her man. But, it will NEVER happen in this lifetime. White man’s trash is a black man’s treasure (*shrugs*).

  • Nisha

    Long real hair= extensions
    Lighter than light skin= not
    Big butt= manufactured
    Small waist= photoshop
    The type to obey without questioning= unintelligent doormat
    She’s the perfect woman= for a BOY AKA one who refers to himself as a n***a

    • Yokessm

      See how your obvious hatred blinds you,you sound like a lonely , bitter,as$hole. You spent how long typing this up, does it make you feel better about yourself?
      For your information I was being sarcastic and I Am not a man. I’m not a hating woman either and where Kim gets her look from is not of my concern! Girl bye.

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  • Mohegen

    I can’t even believe this is a topic. This article touched much of what I already know about Kim and the men she dates. I commend Truth and Dust for their comments. There are a decent amount of women that may be bitter and like another poster said may have what they feel are legitimate reasons behind why they feel the way they do. I tell women all the time that some of us have a tendency of allowing men to treat us a certain way for the sake of having a man. Though I am not blaming women for the behavior of men I am saying that when women learn to take more pride in who they are and love themselves they will not tolerate being treated less than their worth. Men in turn will curb their behavior.

    On the other side of the coin men have to learn to take responsibility for their behavior and stop feeling like they are entitled to treat women with disrespect. I have seen grown men portray all sorts of disrespectful behavior towards women. The more society, men and women of all races continue to accept this ridiculous behavior it won’t stop.

    I am alone by choice not chance. I had the “pleasure” of witnessing a grown man throw a tantrum, bottles and stuff across his front yard. I stepped out of my car to make sure it was what I saw and yes he threw his recyclables across his yard because the utility company he called had him on hold and he had to pay his bill. I kindly got in my car and drove home. I finished the call for him since I got through while he was carrying on, I text him the confirmation of payment and never accepted another call or text from him. He passed through my neighborhood a few times and I gave him the death look. He finally asked, “Do you want me to leave you alone?” I responded with a smile and continued my conversation with my neighbor. He finally stopped trying to get my attention and sees me from time to time and waves I wave back and move on. I didn’t and refuse to condone that type of behavior. I know I deserve better and will find better. Had I stayed that would have been me he threw around.

    That incident has not deterred me from dating African-American men because I know that there are some that were raised with the same values I instilled in my boys. I just know that patience, God, faith and self-love will bring him into my life. In the meantime I continue to work on me and my continued success. Call me a queen a name well deserved.

  • mrsgotrocks

    Please, most people like her because they’ve bought into the myth that only Black women hate her and it gives them a reason to threaten to leave Black women and make negative remarks about them. Look at the comments only 1 man made sense while the rest are acting like if we don’t like Kim, they’re going to leave…Bye!. And for those Black women defending her…I have a feeling when Kris Humphries publicly tells how she feels about you…you’ll be picking your face up off the floor.

  • mrsgotrocks

    She wears hair pieces, extensions, and falls…ie WEAVES!

  • behorne

    I am fascinated by the Kardashians. My favorite is the mom. I am convinced MBAs will study her usage of social media in business one day. I also think they give a nice view into current American culture and American capitalism. I could explain that in more detail but you are very smart so I won’t bother. Also, I agree with your points in number 3 and I love the tree example.

  • stopit

    First of all, dating 4 or 5 guys over 15 years hardly makes for a bad reputation. Thats pretty normal. Second. Kim appears to be a kind, and sweet person. She also seems to be a good business woman that has her own and is not going to “Tameka Foster” a guy that chooses to date/marry her. Thats goes a long way with men who have /achieved something. And to top it off, the chick is BAD, surgery or not. As long as the end result is legit, men don’t care how you got it.
    Stop hatin’ Step up your game, and mind you business. Kim is not taking any man from any of these haters, they are simply not in her league. If you are a bad chick, things like this do not worry you at all.

  • Nessa

    I’ve watched the Kardashian show. I’m a fan of Kim. She gets wifed because she has a very kind and sweet personality to her men. It’s her personality and perhaps her character. People can get over the fact that she taped have sex with her BOYFRIEND of several years. She wasn’t some jump-off, it was a video of their vacay. It’s simple as that.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Julia-Durant/500767921 Julia Durant

    I hate to rain on the big ”Down with white women” parade but she’s Armenian. The men that are attracted to her are attracted to an idea. Kim Kardashian was not pretty when she first came out she has had work done to look the way she does and her two older sisters look more like her before everything. Kanye is not exactly Cornell West and I know if his mother was alive right now the two of them would not be dating. It’s not even something that would have been an issue. Kim is mostly manufactured and in turn people gravitate to her. Instead of making a blanket statement though, most of us here need to understand deep down at the end of the day we do not project a fantasy we’re all flesh and blood women who look normal and have flaws and there’s nothing wrong with that. Kim’s an optical allusion, The sooner people realize that the sooner we wont need articles like these.

  • Adrina

    “Yes, very many men and women find her very physically attractive, but the men she’s been publicly linked to — athletes, entertainers, and brothers of 90′s pop stars — are guys who, if they weren’t dating Kim, would probably be dating some other “urban model,” stripper, or groupie. There are no future doctors, lawyers, Obamas, or Cory Bookers lining up to wife Kim. In fact, even the more “corporate” Black athletes and entertainers, people like Jay-Z, Will Smith, and Lebron — men fiercely protective of their image — wouldn’t marry someone like her.”
    Exactly! And personally, I’m glad she can take this type of black man (aka the riff raff) off the market, because I rather an Obama, or future doctor or lawyer anyway *kanye shrug* Eventually she’ll die down, bc she has no talent…in the meantime, let them run through her like a 7-11

  • rzakia

    So is this my “Ask a Very Smart Brotha” for the week? If so I’m pissed. I expect more from your Damien. This article is useless in the grand scheme of things. But I guess it did generate a lot of discussion (even though it was the baseless black men only date white women foolishness).

  • akagold

    Kudos Damon! This was a great article and not one I expected when I saw Kim K’s name in the title!!
    Your views put this whole issue of Kim into a new perspective. I admit myself that I think she is beautiful but not anymore than the average woman. Shoot, most Indian, Persian and Hispanic women look like her – especially after you add on a layer of makeup. I did perceive that men of color put her on too high of a pedastal and I was annoyed even more when she is awarded “the standard of beauty” status that we all should aspire to be. Yup, I was in my feelings about that a bit and envious about her always winning.
    So you’re making millions a day and dressed by designers. But are you really winning when your life is not private – EVER! People are signing petitions to get you OFF the PLANET. Your dating pool is limited to a small group that shows you respect by calling you “The Perfect B***’ and bragging more on your lower phyical qualities than what is going on in your brain? Ladies, let’s move on from Kim because she is who she is and the men that love her are….Would you really want ANY of them? After reading this article, I feel like I’m winning again!! LOL!!!

  • Rosetta Stone

    No lets call it what it is…why Kim K can pull high profile BLACK men? Answer: because a lot of high profile black men dont have a problem with a woman’s past so long as she isnt black. YEAH I SAID IT. lol

  • Rosetta Stone

    No lets call it what it is…why Kim K can pull high profile BLACK men? Answer: because a lot of high profile black men dont have a problem with a woman’s past so long as she isnt black. YEAH I SAID IT. lol

  • angel

    Well Kim K, white women, and any other woman can date as many black men as they want to. It’s her body, her rep, and her life. I myself don’t have a problem getting and keeping a good QUALITY man. While my fiance isn’t rich and famous (not that he has to be because we BOTH do well financially), he is successful in all they ways that counts: educated, caring, attentive, affectionate, ambitious, respectful, loyal, and hardworking. Can’t put a price tag on that.

  • Big Mike

    What it also does is shows the true colors of the women complaining. They are ALSO shallow, superficial and apparently have very low self esteem.

    • angel

      Well actually that can go BOTH ways. There are just as many bitter, shallow, superficial men that I know personally that have terribly low self esteem issues. Which is why they end up with such “gems” like themselves. No shade thrown from me. More often then you want to admit it’s more men who are superficial, shallow, and have low self esteem. Think about it. You might surprise yourself, lol. Could be you! ;)

      • Big Mike

        ??????

        I know it can go both ways – that was the whole point of my response to angel.

  • BlueroseATL10

    There is nothing ‘smart’ or insightful about this article. This is 2012 – love/like/lust after anyone you want! For goodness sake! White, pink, blue – whatever! Get a life!

  • Patricia

    MadameNoire, why do you all continue writing these articles on Kim Kardashian? For a black on line magazine that is suppose to be for black women, I see more write ups on Kim Kardashian than anybody else. I love your on line magazine, I wish you would please stop writing so much on her. Just because she is popular due to her making a sex tape, that does not mean you have to follow what others are doing. I hate that all these companies are giving her endorsement deals. I don’t even support or buy any of her stuff or the other Kardashians endeavors. Please no more write ups on them. Thanks you.

    • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

      look at how many ppl commented and you have your answer

  • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

    oh my gosh 138 comments over this? After reading the majority of the comments(because I was bored and had nothing else to do) and also weighing in on the subject and commenting myself, I say us black women must once and for all let this go. This white women/black men issue has got us black women frustrated, distraught, and insecure. And do not tell me it isn’t so because look at the freakin comments being made. Let it go, let it go, let it go!

  • pianogal

    UGH – how are these commercials forcing me to LISTEN to them while I’m trying to listen to my music and read your opinion piece?? I don’t even have a choice to turn them off!

  • Kayo

    I think it is simple really. Men like Kim Kardashian.

  • sammi_lu

    Huh??

    • Miss Anonymous

      What I meant was that it is true that we cant get away with anything even if we didnt do anything. For instance they just looked at my name and took someone elses word that I did it. They figure my mom was a single parent and dating some soldier and that since I have a uncommon name I must be fast also. After my dad came out there they changed the story around to something else.

  • d

    its 2012. get over it! she can date whoever she wants white or black. it doesnt concern any of us if a black man wants to date her. bitter black women are always whining about black men dating other races. people can date anyone they please. black women date outside their race everyday but its never articles on that with hundreds of angry comments. when black women do it its considered exciting or adventurous when black men do it they are considered disloyal to their race…oh.

    • colliz

      @d it goes both ways. Black men aren’t thrilled when black women date other races either and neither are white women.

      • Dust

        but black men don’t devote entire sites to slaming black women just for dating outside their race.
        fug it! if you don’t want us we’ll keep it movin untill we find someone who does..
        and 89% of the time it’s with a black woman who doesn’t hold these poisonous attitudes

        • Big Mike

          Thank you

          • mrsgotrocks

            You can hold his hand and switch out with him! Bye!

        • mrsgotrocks

          Bye Bytch! You keep threatening like somebody is going to miss you. Do the damn thing and be gone…enough with the online threats! Leave so Black women around the world can breathe a sigh of relief. You’re like a little kid holding out friendship if someone doesn’t let you play. Bye!

    • LotusBud

      I know, it’s such a double standard.

  • Ki

    Some women in here bitter as hell! I’m no fan of Kim k but she can date as many rappers and athletes she wants I don’t give a damn. Majority of those men sold their soul to the devil anyway !! I also see why some of you women are bitter but most o you not so much because it is you who raise these self hating black men !

    • Dust

      boy i wish i could double like this comment…….

    • mrsgotrocks

      Do you go on Yahoo where White women are going in on her and say the same thing? I doubt it.

  • bossipreader

    I am the last person to like Kim Kardashian and her fame whoring family but its not like she is making these cats offers they cant refuse. They see an attractive woman who is willing to treat them like a King even if only for a little while and they willing to take that ride on the merry go round (except Kris Humphries who acts like this was his first time to the rodeo). And what does her color have to do with anything. I know there are black men out there who foolishly believe that black women arent worthy of them, but there are also black men out there who fall in love with a woman who treats him right regardless of her color. I’m sure that despite the other ridiculous foolery her pimp named Kris Jenner trained her in, she also trained her to keep the hands that spoil her happy at all times.

  • moonrose4me

    I wouldn’t say Kim pulls QUALITY Black men but rich.. yes.

    In my personal experience its rare to see non black women with quality black men despite popular belief.
    Why?
    Because Black men’s standards do seem to evaporate when it comes to non black women. We’ve all seen this.
    A decent/average looking black man with a sloppy looking white chick because she takes care of him while he does nothing.
    And because Kim is a desirable non black chick, her hoe-ish ways are excused.

  • ep

    you could have saved yourself a lot of typing w/ this simple q & a –> why does kim k pull hgh profile men? b/c she is a high profile woman.

    like you wrote, “Water tends to find its own level”

  • entyce

    First of all, no one knows how pretty she is naturally. I keep telling people that celebrity women tend to wear tons of make-up and get all sorts of plastic surgery to look pretty. See some of these women in person bare faced, and you would probably be in utter disgust. Eventually over time, the excessive use of cosmetic surgery and make-up takes a toll on their faces and it doesn’t take very long to see the effects it leaves behind (especially with white women).

    • entyce

      To add to what I just put above, a lot of men assume that long straight hair on white women or women other than black is naturally real. LOL! There are countless numbers of white women and non black women who i saw with weaves and I installed some in for a few of them as well. So you see everything isn’t always what it appears to be.

    • Love_Sexy

      I agree 100% and been commenting the same point…People forget Kim is part of a world that focus heavily on illusions thats Hollywood’s job…Everyone have a right to their opinion as far as what is and is not beautiful however you remove the heavy makeup and take away the plastic surgery and Kim look just average looking…Nothing special…Someone on a blog stated it best that its the makeup that make her attractive…Scrub it off you get the true picture and she look terrible w/o it.

  • Hello_Kitty81

    She’s a fake a** plastic attention wh0re who wears weaves and puts intimate pics of herself on the web so she can stay relevant and mindless men don’t care about her past, she’s one of those “women at the moment” type women, not wife material.

  • http://twitter.com/Zabeth8 MEH

    Yeah, Kim can pull some rich men but can she
    pull Q.U.A.L.I.T.Y. men? Not so much. There’s no reason to hate.

    • angel

      Exactly!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002199770211 Yolinda Carroll

    Black Men Love White Women,She Can Be 200 Pounds,It Don”t Matter ,Has Long Has She Is White.

  • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

    1.She is the epitome of the black male fantasy. Pretty face, long hair, big butt, big booobs, hour glass shape, and white skin. She is physical perfection as far as features go.
    2. has millions so she is less likely to be a gold digger.
    3. She has been around so she might have tricks up her sleeve in the bedroom.
    – yea we know life is not fair. And even if a black women had all of these features above, she still would not be pulling like Kim pulls. Cuz she Black.

    • Chicky_PhD

      Isn’t it sad that a “black man’s fantasy” is someone with white skin?!? Sometimes my people are so lost. Slavery really did a number on the collective black psyche. Smh.

      • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

        sad but oh so true

    • Ann

      Didn’t Kim had some plastic surgery done to her booty, boobs? I don’t think it matter to black man if she had a lot of plastic surgery to them. They just want some with that type of image. I think Kayne is dating her just for publicity. If his mother was alive I don’t think he would be dating her.

      • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

        No disrespect to your comment, but i am tired of the comments like… “she had plastic surgery”, “he would not be dating her if her mom was alive”,”high profile men dont want her” .”Kanye is an exception”, “she was not that pretty at first” “white men don’t want her”, “she is not wife material” ……these comments are either sweeping generalizations, not founded on any kind of evidence or facts, hypothetical, or completely false. These comments are made to make you feel better. What if his mom was alive and approved, what if she has not had any work done? What if she broke up with him and married a white multi billionaire? would the whole world end for the black women? NO! The only fact here is you don’t know her , you only know what you have seen on tv and what you have heard or read about her. Not enough to make comments like that.

  • lmao

    Also LMAOing @ “and by dating several barely literate athletes and entertainers…” Mr. Young WENT IN!!!!! ahahaha

  • lmao

    LMAO @ “brothers of 90’s pop stars”!!!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! I can’t stop laughing! Poor Ray-J. lol

  • Me

    The average woman’s business isn’t broadcast like KK’s, so a lot of men don’t know they’re wifing “The Hallway.”

    • dance

      The average man is Mr “The Hallway” and logically should be accepting of the same baggage he brings to the table. I think black men have been pampered far too long by the ‘do-what-ever-you-friggin-want-but-strictly-demand-x-y-and-z’ attitude shown towards them, it has left even the most average of average man feeling far too entitled and self-righteous.

  • gmarie

    Let us not front like Kim is not a beautiful woman. She is whether anyone likes it or not. She may not be your ultimate prototype of beauty but face it she’s easy on the eyes. And she has a huge behind, and she generates her own cash and she is submissive to her men. Not too many sane men are saying no to that

  • get real

    Black women please. Look at how many WHITE MEN that Naomi Campbell has rocked. Paris Hilton has plenty of white dudes still chasing her depsite her bore past. Pam Anderson has rocked more dudes then your average pornstar. Yet men still want her. Madonna still has men wanting her despite her imfamous past. Eve had a sex out and cats still want her. Rihanna is trying her best to become the new Superhead considering all the dudes that she is smashing lately (Aston Kutcher)But he’s white so that’s no problem with you black women only when it’s a white woman and black man. I’m so sick of the Kim K bashing. Gosh

    • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

      agreed, I honestly feel that Black women keep saying this to make themselves feel better knowing good and damn well it is not true. Plenty of white guys are checking for Kim K. She is absolutely gorgeous

  • wow

    Simple. She’s not black, she doesn’t have to follow the same rules that we do in order to be with these type of men. But honestly she’s not with stellar guys either, they have money and some type of talent (music biz/ sports) but that’s pretty much were their positive attributes end. Other than being an attention slore and an opportunist she doesn’t seem like a bad person, just used up but the guys don’t seem to mind. She’s after fame and money not a decent man so she’s getting what she wants, so can’t feel too sorry for her.

  • Fresh45

    I personally don’t think a person’s past should matter. Unless it was something terrible, why should what they did before they met you matter,if that person is everything you’re looking for in a mate?

    • BW1615

      right…they just had an article about your “number” of partners, and every woman said it shouldn’t matter.

  • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

    Its funny how this article already has 35 comments not including the replies and who is it about? Kim K

  • Fresh45

    There’s no deep answer as to why Kim is able to get the men she gets,its very simple; has been true for years. Kim is able to get these men because she’s very beautiful and on top of her looks,she’s very rich. A beautiful woman can have just about any man she wants,regardless of her reputation. A rich man can have just about any woman he wants,regardless of what he looks like and how he acts. Whether or not they will be able to keep those men and women is a different story but why they get them isn’t that complicated at all. Rich men love beautiful women and beautiful women love rich men. Its as simple as that.

  • ItsRoni

    In the end, this is all Ray J.’s fault!!

  • quest

    Kim K has $.

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbara.codner Barbara Codner

    My mom saw her in person at Fashion’s Night Out and said that she’s absolutely gorgeous. Trust me when I say that she doesn’t go around using that word to describe every attractive woman. I believe her.

    None of us know Kim personally so everyone is going by how they think she is. She’s intriguing and probably sweet when you meet her. You combine those two things with her looks and that’s like a magnet for almost any man.

    LMAO@“Wait…how the hell are they get married? Wasn’t “The Hallway” her
    nickname in college? Who in their right mind would marry her???” I personally know a few “hoes” from college who are now mothers and wives. Let’s just say that they won’t be going back to visit with their families for Homecoming or May weekend!!

  • Lily

    I think she just attracts people like her and, yes, its a sexual thang, cause no matter how good she is in bed, or how beautiful she is, she doesn’t have what it takes (especially the maturity) to be a good wife. So she just attract the population that think just like her.

    • Nisha

      Have you seen the video? She wasn’t good in bed….geez

  • pfft

    What happened to my comments? I didn’t use any profanity. =/

    • sammi_lu

      Okaay same here..I even kept the subject matter clean, but somehow it got shipped off to the land of Mod to be approved/moderated never to be heard from again. LOL, what gives MN??!!

  • Shay

    No matter what you think about Kim or black men dating white women, I think this author made some good points.

  • mia

    The key line in here is that water seeks its own level.
    Men who are happy dating women with no substance likely don’t have any themselves.

    And if these are the kind of black men these “white hoes” are “stealing” from us, I say good riddance.

    • Dust

      so whats the complaint then? if these chicks are taking the black men you don’t want, then why all of the venom?

      • mia

        lol what venom…I clearly put quotations around “white hoes” and “stealing” to indicate I was saying it facetiously. Try to keep up.

    • AMK

      Stop complaining! No one cares. Find men who love you regardless of their race and ethnicity!

    • ImOpining

      Preach it sister! There’s a gal on Utube saying “white women are stealing our men”. With regard to Kanye, I say, be relieved you lost this one as he’s a raving fricken lunatic. KK will deserve the beat down this rageaholic will eventually give her.

  • brooklynarcher

    After reading the comments, I find it interesting that a lot of the opinion is, “black women can’t do it.” and then ya’ll list non-black women that gotten away with some questionable behavior lol. but what does this imply? are black women being sexually oppressed? black women not attractive enough to get away with “wh**ish” behavior? Idk the answers but it does imply something on a larger scale that i’m not comfortable with and quite frankly pi*ses me off as a black feminist. As someone stated, it’s not about wanting to do it but about this standard that apparently we don’t measure up to, to even think about doing it and “getting away” with.

    • reese

      Honestly I agree with you. I was stating that black women are already held to a certain critera due to negating propaganda for many generations. I was pointing out that even in today’s low moral society that we would be completely badgered for similar behavior. Our personal cultures (urban/ hiphop) regales in getting the most, the baddest hoes and trashing them, not loving or “wifing” them yet having a ride or die or main b-tch but not loving any female but their mama’s and daughters. Our society says it okay to have a woman with usual black features and weaves but not black skin.

      • brooklynarcher

        thank you! “our society says it’s okay to have a woman with usual black features and weaves but not black skin” you hit it right on the head! i never really seen women of other races be deemed, a hoe, a down b**ch or wifey the way that black women are.

  • mac

    LOL which high profile Black men? Before Kanye, who? Kris Humphries? Reggie Bush? Ray J? Miles Austin?

    You’ll never see her dating a Kobe or a Lebron.
    B and C list dudes are the only ones who’ll entertain her. She knows this.
    As for Kanye, we all know he’s a captain save a h*. No surprise there. His ex was a stripper. Kim is actually a step up for him, if we’re being honest lol.

    I fall to see how “these hoes are winning nowadays” as some chicks put it.
    None of them are pulling premier men *shrug*

    • gmarie

      Nick Cannon

      • mac

        LMAO touche my friend, touche!

  • Pseudonym

    I mean…Superhead got married after she wrote that book.

    • http://twitter.com/VictoriaGrooves Victoria grooves

      To an alleged woman beater and someone with no job ijs

      • Dust

        she was also engaged to bill maher and he dumped her azz, which is smart because she would’ve put all of his business in them streets too!

  • Cleo

    Because she has a big fake behind, a long straight weave, oh and she’s white. That’s all you need to land a black man in 2012.

  • Janay

    I think this brother is using very superficial justification as to why rich black men are wifing ho3s. I think the question that should have been asked was “Why does K K keep pulling high profile BLACK men?”…The general concensus amongst white people male and female are that while she is attractive, they are absolutelly disgusted with and sick of her. I do not think the white male equivalent she would be willing to date, would even have her at this poing. I also think think its funny that he mentioned that life isnt fair and the attractive girl and “cool/high status” guy get perks. I find it very funny that men never factor in their own looks as women do. When did this happen. I could have swore in the 90’s (the last good decade in the world) men DID have to be attractive. And since we live in a society where women are not relying on looks alone (if we did then none of us would be working a 9-5 hellooo), why are we not raising more standards in the looks of our men. Its only fair right being that post feminist movement, we work just as much as you do. I think what has occured in the 00’s is a direct result of low pickings in men. What used to be a solid 3 in the 90s (lil wayne) is considered attractive. And men do NOT want women to factor looks when selecting a partner because 1. it makes it very competitive for them and 2. They cannot control their looks. They would rather women deal with that burden and forcefeed down your throat all day that you only need SUCCESSFUL/COOL man. How the h3ll when women are successful on their own these days? LOL

    • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

      strongly agree again! preach on it!

      • Janay

        Its true because the argument is always something along the line of “Sorry in society men depend on status/money/success women depend on looks”…….ummm that may have been true in the 1800’s but h3ll women depend on their status/money/success too. They have to work just as the working man since the feminist movement. The least you can do is wake up to a man who is nice on the eyes as well. But MEN will not admit it but they do NOT want women to factor in looks. Women have always factored in looks except over the past 10 years or so, and thats only due to the dwindling standards and low choice in men. That can balance out though if more women were open to all races.

        • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

          right im tired of walking in the mall and think “how the hell did he get her?! Never the other way around

          • reese

            You must have never seen T.I. and tiny. Sheeet if I had known back when he was a skinny broke yella boy slanging with my cousin on the westside that he just wanted a cool chick I would have volunteered my number.

            • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

              lol, but there are exceptions to everything, always. But the majority applies to my comment.

              • reese

                Yeah I know!

    • nycole

      You made me realize something. Since men no longer have to be attrative, which I agree with you, the number of ugly people in the word had seem to increase within the last decade. As for me, I have learned that some of the things I would like in a man is just not going to happen, like being over 6’0. So I told myself, self. He doesn’t have to be tall or taller than you, but we be damned if he is ugly.

      • Janay

        Not only that the ugly men are as cocky as the cute ones. Looks literally play no role in how a guy acts anymore. YOu can dump an ugly guy who dogs you and find a more attractive guy that treats you way better. Dating games all fawked up!

    • pfft

      Don’t forget Puffy UgMo Arse!!!! If he was the last man on earth I’d sew my cooch shut and commit Seppuku. Just saying.

    • Wesley

      Why does it matter to YOU who these men date and/or marry?

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    Or maybe the whole notion that a woman needs to be a certain way and have X number of sexual partners is a old thing of the past. I died at “The Hallway” nickname. But whose to say Ms.Hallway won’t make a good wife or mother. I am in no way a fan but it’s obvious the majority of those who hate her, make their own “standard” of what a “woman” is “supposed” to do and act like, and proceed to judge her accordingly. The same can be said of other female celebs.

  • Cleo

    Because she has a big fake behind, and long straight hair, oh and she is white. That’s all you need to land a black man in 2012.

    • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

      strongly agree

    • Janay

      That should have been the ask a brother question. Why do black males love wifing white h03s exclusively?

      • Wesley

        There are 19 million black males in the United States how do you know who these men marry?

        • Caydence James

          Ok now omit the ones that are in jail, on drugs, gay, married or determined to be underachievers and what remains is not hard to spot in the street – especially when they’re walking down the street hugged up with white girls with rings on their fingers.
          People are only sensitive to what what matters to them or they what they’re going through.. You’ve probably seen or heard of the experiment where a person is read something that has the word “Red” in it so many times that soon after, they start noticing the color red everywhere. The color red has been there but it’s more obvious now because he/she is paying attention to it.
          It’s the same way with this black man/white woman thing. It would have to effect you, offend you or matter to you for you to take notice of how prevelant it is for a black man to wife a white woman.Fact is,until black women decide that it doesn’t matter and to expand their option (if that’s what they want to do), a black man with a white woman will always be like the color red – easily spotted by us and rarely spotted by you.*****

        • MsSunshyne77

          Census shows in 2010, Black men married 157,000 Black women and 360,000 White women. That’s how we know.

          • Multiracial and PROUD

            According to the Pew Research Center, 17% of black people are married to non-black people. I don’t know where you’re getting your statistics from, ESPECIALLY since the Census doesn’t ask about marriage, but even if your stats were right, EIGHTY THREE PERCENT of black people are married to other black people.

            This is what I don’t understand about black people – they complain when white folks are racist, then they ALSO complain when white people see no color lines and marry for love. SMH.
            Pew Research on interracial marriagehttp://pewresearch.org/pubs/2197/intermarriage-race-ethnicity-asians-whites-hispanics-blacks

            2010 Census questionshttps://www.census.gov/history/www/through_the_decades/index_of_questions/2010.html

      • lol

        because that’s all they can get.

        • Big Mike

          Then why are bw so mad about it.

    • Anonymous

      Exactly. Real or fake butt, her white skin is enough for black men nowadays. This is no brainer, I can’t believe it’s a headline. The simple answer is, she pulls stupid men, I doubt responsible, mature, secure man will go for someone like her knowing her history. I’m sorry, Kanye is the biggest idiot ever, so he’s not doing anything special except show how insecure, low self esteem he has. What high profile black men are they talking about? The only decent one I can think of is Reggie Bush but he’s not even that high profile. And do black men think they’ve accomplish something or making us jealous by going for these non black hoes or what? At this point, nothing fascinating about black men going for white men’s reject anymore. Like seriously, Black men need to be answering questions why many of them are incarcerated, why many are babyfathers than husbands/fathers, why many are killing each other, why so many down low brothas etc. They always available to answer stupid question, not important questions affecting them.

      • Cleo

        Thank You, like no white dude would touch her, and she knows it.

        • Machelle Kwan

          She is a pretty girl. I find it odd she isn’t with white men. You would think that she has the ideal look for a white man.

          • get real

            You women are dam fools if you don’t think white men want this woman. The point is SHE DON’T THEM.

            • Fresh45

              I say this all of the time. If Kim wanted a white man, she could get one. She’s rich and beautiful. Those 2 things can get a woman just about any man she wants.

              • get real

                People kills me acting as if interracial dating is based on who white men want and don’t want.. Hell these white women don’t want them. Black women and white men are pushing this tired and played “white men don’t want them so they date black men” nonsense. Kim K doesn’t want white dudes. She likes the brothers.

              • get real

                People kills me acting as if interracial dating is based on who white men want and don’t want.. Hell these white women don’t want them. Black women and white men are pushing this tired and played “white men don’t want them so they date black men” nonsense. Kim K doesn’t want white dudes. She likes the brothers.

                • mia

                  if i recall correctly, she pursued Nick Lachey and Cristiano Ronaldo. Plus Tebow which someone already pointed out. So yea…sorry

                  • get real

                    I don’t do rumors and guessing games. All already addressed little Tebow.

                • mia

                  if i recall correctly, she pursued Nick Lachey and Cristiano Ronaldo. Plus Tebow which someone already pointed out. So yea…sorry

                • Fresh45

                  I don’t understand why people care who a white man would or wouldn’t date. Like does the white man’s approval somehow make this person more date able or something? Why does it matter whether or not a white man or white woman would date someone? I personally think some black women feel good believing that no white man or white man of standard would want Kim. I think the women who do feel good believing that are the bitter and jealous ones.

                  • get real

                    Thank you. They keep talking about how no white man will do this or that but those same white men are flaunting around Naomi Campbell. And we all know about her sexual past. So the the “white man wont do this or that” is so laughable.

                  • Anonymous

                    @get real and fresh45

                    I see Kim K got some obsessed fans. Let’s clarify something here it’s not about white men’s approval. The point here is, no responsible, mature, secure man, black or white will go for a girl who got popular over a sex tape, where everybody saw it, can’t keep a man and sleeps around. She’s a classy hoe, that’s the difference. Now, when it comes to black men, she will NEVER get a responsible, secure, intelligent high profile black man. Some whitetrash, and low self esteem black men wouldn’t mind. It goes back to Kim K will only go for, low self esteem, confused men who will praise her 24/7 bcos she’s too self absorbed. Who better will be praising her big fat butt, white skin and hair than insecure black men. Black men are notorious for going after non black women like Kim K, Evelyn, etc. Only black men will save the rejected non black women. Please, at this point there’s nothing to be jealous or bitter about. Maybe if the black man is in Denzel’s level or the woman has some real tangible talent but that’s not the case here.

                    • Fresh45

                      Miss me with this crap. Kim is beautiful and rich. Any woman with those 2 qualities can get just about any man she wants.That’s basically what it comes down to. Good looks and lots of money. When you have either one of those things,especially the money,then you have plenty of options. When you have those 2 things, people tend to overlook your flaws. Do you think Kim Porter and Cassie would put up with Diddy if he wasn’t wealthy? Do you think men would still be lining up to be with Halle Berry if she was just some average looking chick,with average money;all of her failed relationships? Do you think Naomi Campbell’s billionaire boyfriend would still want her if she was a beautiful supermodel,with her crazy temper and past? Do you think Amber would’ve moved from Kanye to Wiz,if Wiz was just some regular guy,instead of a multimillionaire? I highly doubt the answer would be yes to any of those questions. Women like rich men and rich men like beautiful women,that’s just the way it works.

                    • Big Mike

                      What about Chili? Sanaa Lathan? Both of these women are rich and manless.

                    • get real

                      Did you not see Chili’s show? This woman had a ridiculous ‘requirement” list that was 4 miles long. “he couldn’t smoke ” (that eliminated President Obama right there) “couldn’t drink” “couldn’t do this couldn’t go that” “had to be a certain height” “certain skin tone” certain build” etc. Who knows about Sanaa Lathan.

                    • Fresh45

                      I don’t know why Sanaa is single but it probably by choice and not because she doesn’t have any options. If you saw Chilli’s show then you know exactly why she’s single and will probably stay that way for awhile.

                    • Anonymous

                      Your argument about Kim K is false, you know why? Like I said, she will get men to sleep with her, use her but not a long term commitment. Some men will fall for the beauty and money temporarily but NOT men who are looking for something beyond a pretty face or nice body. And if they wife her up with a history like that, it’s usually short term, after they realize it’s nothing more. All men are NOT that stupid to fall just for a pretty face with money and with a history like Kim. Geez, is it that hard to comprehend simple logic? Go read a book.

                    • get real

                      Sigh. Same ole bs. You do know that Evelyn is black right? She’s a Puerto Rican of African descent. You do know there’s black people in Puerto Rico don’t you? I wish you black women on site get your tongues out of white racist men booty holes. Just about every comment from you guys can be found on various white supremist websites.

                    • Dust

                      go to a white supremacy site like storm front and those racsists dudes are spewing the same vitriol that these women are spitting….ladies step your game up and stop blaming everyone else for your lack of game to get the men that you desire….

                    • Anonymous

                      Of course, I know there are Afro puerto rican, Afro cubans, Afro columbians, etc but to my understanding some of them refer to themselves as latinas not black. It’s like be calling Zoe Zaldana black, when she clearly doesn’t want to be associated with that. So for now, Evelyn is a latina with African roots.

                    • get real

                      Who cares what they “refer” to themselves as. They’re black. Back in the day the government over there told them to refer to a term called “Indo” instead of black. So it’s just a bunch of people running away from their blackness. Lala Vasquez tried to pull that “I’m not black but Puerto Rican” nonsense. And I looked at the T.V and said “shut your black @ss up”. But she eventually admitted that she was a black puerto rican. Some of them embrace their blackness and some don’t. You don’t see Christana Milian dancing and dodging her blackness do you? And she’s Puerto Rican.

                    • Anonymous

                      Christiana Milian is Afro cuban. Cubans don’t have any problem embracing their African roots. Infact, when you go to Cuba, many are still very close to their African tradition which is connected to the Yoruba culture in Nigeria. Their food, dance, music, represents that. It’s Puerto Ricans and Dominicans who mainly have problem embracing their Blackness.

            • mac

              Of course she could a get a white man. The question is, a white man of what stature?
              You think she could get a George Clooney, a Brad Pitt or any other white man who’s universally respected for his craft?
              Before just recently, she couldn’t even get an A-list black man, let alone white man.

              • get real

                What about a millionaire banker? Millionaire stock broker? And since when is a 2nd NFL draft pick, who played for USC and broke records, won the Heisman trophy not A list? (Reggie Bush). And how do we know if she wants a old cornball like Clooney? It’s obvious that she doesn’t want or like white men. So who cares if Clooney would date her???

                • mac

                  Let’s talk about his NFL career…you know, the present?? LOL this is besides the point anyway.

                  If you think she dated those no names by choice, the only fool here is you. Men who are well respected in their industry know better than to get involved with the likes of her and her family.
                  Kanye’s a separate case.

                • mac

                  Let’s talk about his NFL career…you know, the present?? LOL this is besides the point anyway.

                  If you think she dated those no names by choice, the only fool here is you. Men who are well respected in their industry know better than to get involved with the likes of her and her family.
                  Kanye’s a separate case.

                  • get real

                    He’s still high profile, your talking as if he’s a scrub or something. It’s hilarious that a woman who is drop dead gorgeous and millionaire (according to you)has no choice and had to settle for what she can get. And you call me a fool? Lol. What person of means has to settle for less then what they want? Get real.

                    • AlexisParis

                      Kim is a gorgeous woman, very successful but in the back of a person’s mind; they know some people have seen her video

                    • lol

                      then why did she marry kris humphries? a virtual nobody who is worth less than she is???????

                • mia

                  So you’re telling me she can have whoever she wants….and the best she could marry was a no name benchwarmer who didn’t even treat her well at the very least?

                  Oh don’t worry, I’ll definitely wait.

              • Love_Sexy

                Hello, Thank You…Well said….Even the author of the article stated the same thing that a man of a higher class (such as you pointed out) or statue would less likely hook up with Kim….That is the whole point a man that has class, standards, intelligence, morals, values and his head on straight would not get involve with a woman like her.

            • Anonymous

              She doesn’t want them bcos they won’t PRAISE her whorish ways like how black men will. She loves the attention she gets from black men because it’s about her. Some white men will date but I doubt they will be flaunting her around like how black men do to her. will go but then some black men praise anything as long as it’s light or white.

              • mac

                Nail. on. head. !!! I’ve been saying this. White men will not blow her head up the way black men probably do.

                • get real

                  You and Anounymous remember that article that Madam Noire had about “8 reasons to date a white man”? And one of those reasons was “white men tend yo look beyond your past”. Translation: White men will wife up slores and black will not or aren’t quick to do so”. So please get off of the nonsense.

                  • Truth

                    HAHAHAHAHAHA. They get presented with facts to bypass their BS theories and they either vote the comment down or completely disregard it. These people can’t be real.

              • AlexisParis

                if you notice a lot of the rock stars marry strippers and playboy bunnies. then they wonder why the marriage doesn’t last.

                • Kayo

                  Their marriages probably don’t last, not because of the women, but because of them being rockstars and the lifestyles they have.

                  • Amber-Eliazbeth Stores

                    yeah, but they remain the “star” & don’t share the light. They may wife a stripper, but that stripper plays the back!

                    • Kayo

                      What?

              • Dust

                @ anonymous FAIL she likes black men for the same reason white men hate us….because we can throw that dyk!

            • lol

              keep telling yourself that. regular white dudes would want her, but the high profile white dudes that she wants reject her. she was Paris Hilton’s friend , hanging out with her trying to get a rich white dude but all of them were checking for “blonde and blue-eyed white chicks” , that’s when she got implants and started going for black dudes because they were easier. before she got married to Kris Humphries they tried to get a few white hockey players for her, they wanted to date but refused to go on camera.

          • entyce

            usually black men love to fawn over white men’s straps. im just saying.

            • Truth

              This reeks of bitterness. I can’t deal with this site. I’m gonna receive a million dislikes for it (and that says more about the people disliking what I’m gonna say than my statement), but the fact that the first comment–about black men only liking white women–got 78 likes is just ridiculous. Sharp people know that when speaking of situations, blanket statements are as useful as a medal detector when looking for a needle in a haystack. I’m scrolling through the comments but the generalizations and foolish blanket statements are too much to bear.

              This same site celebrates Jay-Z (who married a black woman), Idris Elba (formerly married to a black woman and who has openly proclaimed love for them), Will Smith (married to a black woman), Denzel Washington (married to a black woman) and you commenters cosign it ONLY to come and cosign this black men only love white women ? I bet at least 60% of the people who cosigned the “black men only like white women” bull also liked the recent “Ask A Black Man” series filled with regular black men who get this: ACTUALLY LIKED BLACK WOMEN and WERE EFFUSIVE WITH THEIR COMPLIMENTS FOR BLACK WOMEN.

              Yep, all of us black men are just salivating at the thought of white woman. FOH. I went to a great PWI, and I only know of maybe 5 black men who date white women. It’s a damn shame so many of you are buying in to that destructive stereotype like Appleholics flock to their latest offerings. I’ve now lost 5 minutes of my life typing this, but I’ll end this by saying: ALL BLACK MEN DON’T LOVE WHITE WOMEN. Saying that they do, is like saying all black women are bitter; it’s a foolish, useless stereotype.

              pfft….and we’re supposed to be helping each other

              • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

                thanks for that

              • Dust

                @ i swear….hearing this crap all of the time, makes a nicca not want to deal with these women.

                i’ve gone to a wedding (sometimes 2 and 3) every year since 2002. all black men black women. i’m in a rather large fraternity, and i don’t even know of any of my brothers who date, let alone marry white women.

                what you have here is a bunch of angry bitter women who condem all black men because the ones that they want aren’t choosing them and why should we? why would brothers who’s about anything want to invest in a chick that feels this way about them?

                look in a mirror…..and you’ll see what the problem is

                • CarlaKah

                  I totally get it. But look at the other side of the coin. If the negative image of black men is everywhere around you (your dad, your brother, neighbors, ex-boyfriends) and you haven’t succesfully found out what mistakes you’ve made to only (or mostly) date horrible black men, how can you believe that many are good? You will need proof. That’s why I always tell my black male (childhood) friends that they are a walking peace maker. They have the ability to help a sister believe it again and if she is willing to listen you might even give her some golden tips.

                • serenity1125

                  Not all black women are bitter, and worrying about white women. I am very secure and love myself very much.

                • Nikki

                  @Truth @Dust: Thank you for your comment. I LOVE and approeciate my brothas!!! And I give the same support and admiration to my sistas! #BlackLove

                • mrsgotrocks

                  If a few women online make you want to give up on Black women…then you weren’t planning on being around anyways…Bye!

                • amk

                  Well said. I am a Black woman and I believe that we shouldn’t envy or be bitter over Black men going after non Black women.

                  Life is too short to be bitter. Like I said in another comment, most Black men prefer their own Black women

              • CarlaKah

                well I actullay liked your little sermon so yeah. LIKE!

              • Anonymous

                It’s not all bitterness, I’m just annoyed at Kim K brought up on every black blog like she’s something special. And to even make matter worse, she’s not black, so I don’t get the obsession with her. The fact is, IR is a small percentage, and Black men and black women relationship is still the highest. But, there are some ignorant, immature black men out there who think they are doing something special because they have a non black woman, and Kim K is nothing to be proud of. That’s why I mentioned she will never get a responsible, mature, secure black man.

              • serenity1125

                I agee with you 100%. The problem with our (BLACK PEOPLE) we don’t stick together. We are to quick to put one another down. By the way I love my BLACK MEN!!

              • mrsgotrocks

                I have no problems with your comments. Well stated.

              • AMK

                Well said. I agree. Most Black men love and prefer Black women but these days so many Black men are dating non Black women and it isn’t hard to ignore.

                But at the end of the day, most Black men prefer and love Black women. Kim Kardashian is not revelant on the minds of most Black people unless they are colorstruck, stupid Black men.

                Sistas, don’t be jealous of Kim Kardashian because she will end up all alone one day with no one to help her.

          • MissRealist

            Noooo, not really. The typical White man’s fantasy is a tall, blue-eyed, big-boobied, flat-butt, blonde Scandinavian-looking chick. Kim’s too close to the minority-look, or ethnic-looking.

        • Shani

          Tebow rejected her.

          • get real

            Tebow is playing this stupid over the top religious nut. He’s not stupid he knows white America would disown him if he dated Kim K. I mean she’s only been with black men huh? So Tebow doesn’t count. He’s to busy playing white America with his “i smile and drink apple juice all day” sthick.

          • MLS2698

            Do you believe how she tried to reel him in by talking about going to church and prayer meetings? A Christian man would not give her a second look. REJECT! She’s working with something, and it ain’t godly.

      • islandgirl77

        Very profound!

      • get real

        I can go to any white supremacy website and read this same ole tired played out “black men are in jail” “black men are gay” dumb bs. You little black feminist minded bitter women are going to forever align yourself with the white male power structure. You have to in order to have such ridiculous idiotic twisted idealogy. And the only people who date outside of their race for bs political and social reasons are black feminist such as yourself. You would do anything for the opportunity to date a white boy.

      • Sarah

        Can you explain her history exactly? She has had relationships some long term others not as long, does this make her exempt from having other relationships? You are basically saying she should be damned for the rest of her life for being human and trying to find love. Come on, stop being so simple minded and just trying to find a weak excuse. The issue I have with Kim is that she is clearly shallow, materialistic,got fame from a sex tape, and not through a talent or skill of any sort. Stop looking into things that don’t have bearing on a person’s character such as their sexual activities,it’s the person’s heart and character that matters and the end of the day we all make mistakes.Kim maybe be with these men for their money and status and the reality is being an attractive women they may just not care and just want her cause she is hot.

      • GOOD BLACK WOMAN

        YOU NAILED THIS!!!!!

    • Wesley

      You sound bitter.

      • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

        she bitter for a damn good reason.

    • islandgirl77

      What type of men is she pulling though? Mostly, if not all black men. We all know that black men are obsessed with non black women, especially exotic.

      • get real

        She’s pulling or getting pulled by what SHE LIKES. Dam why can’t you women get that? I remember reading an article about how black women were purposely chasing asian and latino to get pregant so their kids could “good hair’. Talking about liking something exotic.

    • Hello_Kitty81

      You are so right, but there are black men who can’t stand her and they’re gay.

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/2SPEKPPLAG5CJCDSCXMDSH2AOM Likewaterforchocolate

      Thanks. You nailed it. in 50 characters or less. Mr. Smart has offered an over analysis of the situation which is more than it deserves.
      Black men will clamor for what no white man wants.

  • jaimuziq

    Most of these celebrities/athletes don’t have high standards they’ll sleep with anyone.

  • Yokessm

    I don’t care, for me a man sexual health matters, so if he’s been around the block too much(that I know off) then we’re through. I don’t like hoes.

  • Stanley

    WoW!

  • pfeiffer87

    They go for her because she’s a beautiful (yes, BEAutiful), rich, successful HUMAN being.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1234751726 Wanda Pinckney Spencer

      I can agree with u, she definitely has the “it” factor, if I had her body, pleanty would be after me. I’m just using my brains, and sweet personality.

    • Shonda Johnson

      There’s NOTHING remotely attractive,captivating,or alluring about Kim Kardashian. Lisa Raye, Nia Long,Pam Grier,and a slew of black women are beautiful.

      • BW1615

        O LAWD…I wouldn’t use Lisa Raye and her golddiggin self. Please tell me whats unattractive about how Kim k. LOOKS.

  • reese

    I don’t keep up with horoscopes or the Chinese calendar but this year and last year must be the year of the Whorrre! I am not trying to say that black women in general want to be loose, but none of us could pull a K.K., J. Lo or P. Hilton.

    • Miss Anonymous

      lol! I called 2010 the year of the jumpoff after Tiger had his issues and another woman I knew beat her husband with his crutches (he had just gotten back surgery) when she found him cheating with one of his soldiers. 2011 was the year of #heauxbewinning.

      • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

        LMAO @ heauxbewinning

  • Na Na

    Lmao @ “so you probably will never marry an NBA player or a rapper….but well you probably weren’t going to anyway!”

  • gracie

    They go for her coz they already know what they r working with duh! She is a lady in the street a freak in you know what! I think they ask her to give head like she did ray j.

    • reese

      Gross!

    • dimpz

      I don’t know…the tape was pretty boring “Oh Ray-J,my p*ssy’s gonna explode” in her weird baby voice. Naah…

      • nycole

        CTFU, ya’ll stupid

      • http://twitter.com/rainydayzz01 RazzleDazzleMe

        LMAO…i’ve never seen the whole tape of her and Ray J (what little i saw was nothing special), but did she really say that.lol??? ctfu

      • lolo

        She was reading from the script card her mom was holding!

        • Native_Noir

          LMFAO! I DIE!!!!

      • quest

        lmaoooooo…..I agree she was a bore. I can get down on a “D” better then she did.

      • ItsRoni

        Omg! Hahahaha! I’ve never had any desire to see the tape.

      • MLS2698

        Wow! She said that? I guess she went black, and never went back!

      • MLS2698

        Wow! She said that? I guess she went black, and never went back!

      • Nisha

        LOL!!! Booooooooooring!

  • Non Kardashian fan

    This is a bunch of junk. But, you are correct that Kim Kardashian can do sexual acts and get away with it. But black women can’t do that. I don’t understand what black men see in her. She has ZERO talent

    • disqus_WfmNqv9gsC

      if you really are a non kardashian fan, take her last name out of your usernme please

    • I’m just saying

      Hmmm he actually makes a good point these are rappers and athletes she’s dating and marrying! She has a very small pool of men to choose from versus a regular woman such as myself who prefers an educated black man who cares about his family and community and not the limelight! Man how shortsighted we as women can be bcuz the media puts this woman on a pedestal! She married someone just as shallow as herself…I could care less about her especially after this mans comment!

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