Then there’s this gross reaction: “Hold on—you’re saying I could have been cheating this whole time, too? I kept it in my pants for nothing!”

Unfortunately, men, sometimes when a woman cheats, it was the last straw for her. In other words, she was about to break up with you anyways. Not all female cheaters want their relationships to work out. Not all of them want you to suggest couples counseling.

You also don’t put a stop to inappropriate direct messages or text message. You may not initiate those conversations or say anything to encourage them, but you also don’t actively stop them.

If you cheat on your partner, your relationship is forever changed—whether or not you tell your partner. If you don’t tell your partner, you’ll experience an internal turmoil that will affect the way you behave around your partner, and possibly even destroy your health. That amount of guilt is not good for your blood pressure, […]

Whether we like to admit it or not, men and women tend to derive different things from a relationship. It’s not uncommon for women to take on a more nurturing role (we’ve just evolved to do so) and for men to take on a more protective one. So, if we get different things out of […]