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When you’ve only been with somebody for a few months, and you’re really into that person, you let things that bother you slide. In fact, nothing bothers you. The pure excitement over consistent sex and somebody who adores you blind you to things that would otherwise drive you insane if a friend or family member did them. Not to sound cynical—your love for somebody will always carry you through menial arguments—but eventually, the euphoria will wear off, and you’ll feel stable enough to realize, “Damn. This person kinda makes me want to put in ear plugs and drink a bottle of wine sometimes.” Not to mention that there are some practical and logistical issues that come up if you spend most of your time with another person. You accommodate another person’s preferences in the way you eat/sleep/drive/socialize. So here are 20 arguments only long-term couples understand.
