Feminista Jones: Conquer Your Sexual Comfort Zone

MommyNoire enlisted the help of  self-proclaimed “post-modern sex-positive, Black feminist” and award-winning blogger Feminista Jones to help us break through our barriers in the bedroom. While you may know Feminista, from her tireless activism work, the sister has also penned a BDSM novel Push the Button that gets us exploring new areas of sexuality. Her wealth of information and advice is worth taking a few notes on… your sex life will thank you later (or tonight).

You are an amazing woman. You, like many others, may work full-time in your career while being a doting mother to beautiful, precocious children. Perhaps you’re getting your degree or have a few already under your belt. You always lend a listening ear and soft shoulder to your sisterfriends and you love volunteering to do community service.  And though you are pulled in several directions each day, you still manage to have time to be a loving partner to your special someone. There’s only one problem: you’re stuck in a sexual rut!

Maybe you’re not exactly in a “rut” but instead find yourself stuck in a sexual comfort zone—a mental and physical space in which you find yourself making little progress when it comes to intimacy and sexual activities. You want to explore more and spice things up, but you’re not sure how to go about doing so or maybe there are some things holding you back from experimenting. Here are a few tips on how you can step outside of your comfort zone and kick your sex life into high gear.

Conquer Your Sexual Comfort Zone