15 Things He Won't Tell You About Yourself
That’s Why He Didn’t Call Back? 15 Things He Won’t Tell You About Yourself
Ever wondered why he never called you back? Or why that relationship ended out of nowhere? Men aren’t great at saying what’s on their mind, but don’t believe him when he says there’s nothing on it. Here are 15 things he won’t tell you about yourself.
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You Should Keep the Hedges Trimmed
It’s a matter of perspective. If you had a regular view of the work area, you’d probably be more diligent about keeping it relatively clear. Nothing wrong with taking a hand mirror and asking yourself if it couldn’t use a little clearing.
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They Hate Smokers
But what I can’t understand is when it gets to be hypocritical. There are men who smoke all kinds of things but say they’d never date a woman who does the same…
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You Look Thirsty
Men can be confusing. They give Ms. Freakum Dress all of the attention but on a deeper level, it’s not what they really want. Spandex is great for attracting a one night stand but something tailored is better for catching something long term.
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You’re too Smart
You two have the same education level, like the same movies and are at the same pay grade but he’s not interested. Why? Not every man wants to date his equal. It’s ugly, it’s a double standard, but sometimes that’s just the way it goes.
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You’ve Gained Weight
It’s hard to talk to anyone about. But after casually mentioning gym memberships and salad bars, he may decide he doesn’t know how to deal and hit the door.
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You’re Getting Too Comfortable
In an ideal relationship you can rock your granny panties and let the hair grow where it wants to. But the deepest levels of comfort terrify some men. If he keeps buying you sexy lingerie and trips to the spa it could be time to clean up your at-home act.
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You Can’t Talk to Me Like That
He messes up, you blow up, now you’re fighting again. Men are better at fight and flight than “I know you’ve got your finger in my face but maybe we could sit down and talk about this rationally.” Sometimes the only way to stop the argument cycle is to woman up and calm down first.
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You Curse Too Much
Not all men are on the same page, but watch his face the next time you drop an f-bomb. It could be your only clue that curse words are one of his turn offs.
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I Can’t Handle Your Number
For some reason he’ll feel compelled to ask anyway. But the guys who are the most interested in knowing how many people you’ve slept with are usually the ones that are the least capable of handling anything but the lowest numbers.
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I Need to Be the Boss Sometimes
Some of the best relationship advice I ever heard? Being right doesn’t always make you right. A solid relationship has give and take (even if you have to make up some of the give so he can have some take).
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You’re Too Focused on Me
When you neglect your friends and start skipping work for more “we” time, it sends some men into a panic — even if he really likes you. A few missed calls and a “nah babe I’m busy” will turn a man who’s feeling smothered right around.
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You Need to Step Up Your Sex Game
You’re probably bored with recycling the same three moves too. If he can’t find the initiative, head to the nearest mall, spend an hour at Victoria Secret and Googling some tricks and watch your relationship light back up.
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I Can Change
People are always saying “you can’t change a grown man.” The whole truth is that you can, but he’ll resent you for it later. If he’s not inspired to do different on his own, pushing him to change is unlikely to lead anywhere but the end of the relationship.
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It’s Too Soon for All This Marriage Talk
Mention “marriage,” “wedding,” or even “happily ever after” in the first few months and his red flag will go all the way up.
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You Only Get One Ultimatum
So you better make it count. Every time you say “If you do this, I’m out” and don’t follow through, he’ll take your word a little less seriously.
