15 Legitimate Reasons To Leave A Church - Page 4

Is your church right for you? If it’s starting to feel like it’s not, that’s OK. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to leave a church.

It’s Getting too Big

And you feel more like a number than a member.

You’re Bored

People go to church for spiritual nutrition. If you don’t feel full after every service, it’s time to shop around for a more inspiring service.

You Can’t Communicate with It’s Leaders

When you need a spiritual adviser, your pastor should be there. If he’s too busy, look for a shepherd with more time for his flock.

You Don’t Agree With the Message

There are a lot of interpretations of the word.

There’s No Message At All

Is this a sermon or a performance?

It’s Messy

Maybe it’s time to find a church that’s more about the word than the mess.

Too Many Offerings

Tithes are supposed to be 10%. But with the building fund and new air conditioner collection, it feels more like twenty.

There’s No Day Care or Children’s Church

Sometimes families need to find a place where everyone can enjoy the word.

You Don’t Have A Role

You’ve suggested a volunteer program, retreats for the kids and ideas for the choir, but no one seems open to your ideas. It may be time to find a church that is.

You Don’t Feel At Home

It could be time to go find your spiritual family.

You Feel Judged

A church is a place for spiritual healing, not weekly competitions for who’s holier than thou.

The Choir Doesn’t Move You

For a lot of people, it’s an important part of filling their spiritual cup.

The Service Is Too Long

If the thought of four hours of the word deters you from going to church at all, it may be time to find a service with a shorter message.

You’re Being Pressured to Stay

If things turn negative when you mention you’re unfulfilled, it could be a sign that your pastor cares more about your tithes and his numbers than your spiritual well being.