Just say, “I want to sleep with you.”
Not the first time you meet or go out (unless you’re just looking for a one night stand) but when you’ve been seeing a guy for the amount of time that makes you comfortable to get in bed with him, forego that awkward stage of easing into it, or trying to set the mood. Just say, at the end of a great night, “I want to sleep with you.” Look him in the eyes, and say it slowly, with confidence. Men have to put in so much work to seduce women that sometimes they can feel it wasn’t totally the woman’s decision to have sex. So having a woman say, “This is what I want” can be a major turn on, and a relief.