Demand an answer from a wishy-washy guy
Dealing with a guy who only reaches out a couple times a month? Or a guy who dodges the question “what are we?” Skip the guessing game and do yourself a favor. Say, “Look. I like you. I want a relationship with you. Is that or is that not what you want?” If the answer is no, it was always no. You just would have had to wait a long time to have found out. If the answer is yes, that’s just an unexpected bonus.