Ask A Very Smart Brotha: We’ve Been Living Together For A Year, Why Won’t He Commit?

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Janelle: Why do guys think that being the man means all their needs come first and a woman who wants to be appreciated and adored is needy and insecure?

DY: If you’re dating guys who think like that, I think it’s time for you to start dating different guys.

Janelle: Also, is it worth trying to communicate your feelings and realizations about a relationship after it’s over?

Also, why do men think that we don’t notice when they’re checking out other women in our presence? What is the line between appreciation, lust, and disrespect? Why are they so defensive if we bring it up and demand that we tolerate it?

DY: As far as your next questions, no and it sounds like you’re talking about one particular man and not men in general.

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