Ask A Very Smart Brotha: We’ve Been Living Together For A Year, Why Won’t He Commit?

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Shazzle: Hey Damon, when infidelity plays a part in a relationship between two, what are some of the best ways to mend the relationship if both parties choose not to leave each other?

DY: Interesting question. If you’ve already made the choice to stick it out, the first thing you need to do is figure out exactly why the infidelity occurred in the first place. Was it a one time thing, a correctable issue, or something that exposed a fundamental flaw that may never be repaired? Also, finding a way to forgive and reestablish trust is necessary as well. Those two need to come from within though. But, there’s really no point in continuing if they’re not present.

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