Listen Up Fellas: 9 Reasons Women Don’t Talk To You At Bars
You’re too pushy
Women like the chase just as much as men do. Refrain from making any comments that make it known you are attracted to a woman for at least twenty minutes into talking to her. That’s right—twenty. Can you hold it in? It’s okay if you knew you wanted to date her/sleep with her/get her number from the second you saw her. But she can’t know that. She needs to feel she won over your affections. She needs to feel you found her so charming and funny, that you felt compelled to finally hit on her. She won’t enjoy a compliment handed to her too easily.