Are You Chasing His Tail Too Much?

Symptom 4: You settle for “hook ups” even when you want a date.

Nothing wrong with a (safe) quickie every now and again or a (safe) late night creep, but if that’s all you get from him, you’re not in a relationship, you’re in a “situation.”  Settling for less than what you want just for a little ooh ahh is not the move.

Cure:  That dude is not the only person who has bedroom skills. Seriously. His delectable body, no matter how wonderful, is not worth your dignity or emotional health. Let him know what you need from him and what you expect from the two of you together. If he can’t/won’t get on the same page, keep it moving.  Buy a battery-powered friend for the time being until you’re ready to be intimate with a worthy man.

Don’t be ashamed if you’re packagematized. It happens to the best of us. Just don’t let it happen for too long or too many times.  Work it, don’t let it work you.

Have you ever been a fiend? How did you know you had this condition? What did you do to get over it?