Phone Foreplay — 4 Spicy Sexting Tips To Keep Them Wanting More - Page 4

4.  Show Appreciation (Like, a Lot).

Showing appreciation can go a long way, and it may make your partner melt, too. Give your partner props for their performance in the bedroom during your last encounter, or maybe they texted you a compliment that sent your pleasure senses to the moon. Appreciation will help to keep things steamy throughout your sexting exchange. 

You can say something along the lines of “I can’t stop thinking about the last time you touched me” or “you’re getting me so hot right now, thank you for the compliment.” According to Harris, this keeps the conversation from making things feel awkward or getting extra raw with your words in an uncomfortable way. Compliments and positive reinforcement go a long way. And the more specific, the better.

“Sexting can make people feel nervous or vulnerable, especially if there are pictures involved, so be sure to share a lot of positive reinforcement to make people feel good about what they’re saying and sending,” she added. 

Whether it’s a compliment on their dirty talk, their body, or the pic they just sent, let them know they’re absolutely killing it. Because nothing keeps the sexting going like feeling sexy, seen, and wanted. Sexting isn’t about being perfect; it’s about having fun, feeling desired, and building anticipation. When in doubt, keep it playful, honest, and just a little bold.

Now go on… make someone’s phone (and maybe something else) buzz. 

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