How Newly Married Parents Neglect Their First Kids
How to fix it
If they’re around, you can get help from the grandparents. You can all pool your money and give your kids something really special. But also remember that, as your kids get older, all that will really matter to them is spending time with you. If you put aside a day or two to be with them for their birthdays and holidays, they’ll forget about expensive gifts (just do keep gift prices fair amongst all kids).