How Newly Married Parents Neglect Their First Kids
How to fix it
If you can get everyone—your ex, your spouse, and all children—to get along, try to talk them into having a joint holiday. You could all pick a midway point between where you live, rent a house, and be together. If you cannot do this, then be sure to visit your first set of children very near the holiday. Do something special with them. Take them on a small trip or plan a very special day.